matternat968 said:
I know I'm at a huge disadvantage here because I don't understand the math that explains all this. But what I gather is because of the Lorentz transformation or "time dilation" two objects in relation to each other can never be moving faster than c from their perspective, and this has all been practically observed with atomic clocks on space stations correct?
You are mixing up quite a few things here, although I think you're on the right track.
One of Einstein's postulates was that the speed of light is always the same in inertial frames (based on previous experiments in electromagnetism and some inspired insight). This instantly precludes anything that travels slower than light from traveling faster than light - at some point it would have to be traveling at the same speed as light, which would mean the light was stationary for it, which is not the same speed as normal. Relativity is basically Einstein figuring out the implications of that postulate and showing that it is logically consistent and matches experiment.
One of the implications of relativity is that velocities do not add - if I say you are going at 60mph in one direction and someone else is going at 60mph in the opposite direction that does not mean you see him going at 120mph (although you'll never notice the difference at that speed - which is why we never realized before Einstein). But when you get to near lightspeed the errors become very obvious.
The above is all Special Relativity. Einstein (and others) expanded it into General Relativity, which includes the effects of gravitation. There, things get much more complicated - it's quite often impossible to define velocity in any meaningful way. When it is possible to define it, however, the same velocity addition rules apply and nothing exceeds the speed of light.
You mentioned time dilation. That isn't really relevant here, although it does come into the explanation of how I understand your measurements when I see you and a mate moving in opposite directions near light speed.
One of the simplest demonstrations of the speed of light limit is Bertozzi's experiment. You can see it on YouTube:
He accelerates electrons, but no matter how hard he tries they never reach light speed. Lots of other related experiments have been done, including putting clocks on airliners and showing that they tick at a different rate compared to one left at home (by Hafele and Keating, originally), so we're pretty confident in the theory, but I don't think they're quite so directly applicable to your question.