I'm writing an article about the curious fact, that we do not find any traces of alien civilisations or have proof of them coming to us. One of the possible reasons I look at are travel costs ond travel times. Although aliens in sf-movies and book frequently visit Earth with huge ships, and crossing vast distances in mere seconds, given the low probability of warp-drives and anti-gravity, I don't think that is possible. What I need to calculate is an as realistic scenario as possible, given the possible technological progress of an alien civilisation, (like anti-matter drive) but not breaking any laws we know are unbreakable. Thus, I need the real speed curve of a rocket under constant thrust from an engine that "slows down" when approaching c, that has slow acceleration, when there is plenty of fuel, and rapid deceleration, near the destination. I need to calculate the experienced flight time and acceleration/deceleration curve, test different fuel-payload ratios and filght times as measured on ship and on the home planet. I had math and physics at high school some 30 years ago, but do not work with it now, and have forgotten most. Curious enough, all online flight time calculators and equations I can find work on constant acceleration and/or totaly improbable scenarios and are of no help to me. Since I lack any knowledge of how to differentiate or integrate, I'm extremely grateful for any equation ready for use. The constants I work with are the initial mass of payload and fuel, and thus their ratio, total flight time and the constant amount of fuel burnt per dt as measured on the ship, as well as the efficiency or specific momentum of the engine.