The very flippant response would be that the universe is under no obligation to act the way you think it ought to.
A somewhat less flippant response is to point out that the speed of light is so high that none of us have any natural experience observing things moving at relativistic velocities, so we have to be a bit careful about trusting our intuition here. It's worth noting that the equations of special relativity reduce to those of classical mechanics if you assume that all the speeds involved are small compared to the speed of light.
An even less flippant answer is that light waves in a vacuum are fundamentally different than (for example) water waves in water (which do behave as you're expecting). The difference is that the water waves are moving at a constant speed relative to the water, and when I'm measuring my speed relative to them I can look down at the water, see if I'm moving relative to the water or are "really" at rest. You can't do that in a vacuum - there's just you and the light wave.
My favorite argument (other than the experimental results, which pretty much trump all the arguing of course) is that the speed of light in a vacuum can be calculated from the laws of electricity and magnetism, which do not care how fast you're moving. So if there's a light wave in my vicinity, I expect that I'll measure its velocity to be c - but someone moving past me had better get the same result too, because he's supposed to be subject to the same laws of electricity and magnetism.
The history here is interesting. Maxwell discovered these laws in the 1860s, and for the next half-century the single greatest unsolved problem in physics was how to reconcile these laws with our intuition based on the way that water waves work with water and sound waves work with air, and so forth. Special relativity was that resolution, and MM-style experiments confirmed that it's a good one.
In historical context it's not at all surprising that the title of Einstein's classic 1905 paper on special relativity was "On the electrodynamics of moving bodies". You can find copies on line; it's not exactly a gentle tutorial introduction

but the math is surprisingly undemanding and it's a good read.