If your motor supplies constant torque regardless of angular velocity, you can't ever reach equilibrium. Fortunately, there are no such motors.
Consider, instead, a case where the wheel is driven by an electric motor, whose torque changes with angular velocity roughly like this. (I'm oversimplifying a bit, but it's not a bad model for simple DC motor.)
[tex]\tau = \tau_{max}(\omega_{max} - \omega)[/tex]
Suppose, also, that the torque at ω=0 is such that it causes the wheels to slip. Now the driven wheel spins up quickly until the torque from motor balances torque from friction. This gives time for the second wheel, under friction torque, to catch up with the angular velocity of the former. At that point, the two wheels go back into a no-slipping mode, and keep accelerating together to level off at ωmax of the driven wheel.
If you also have load on the second wheel, then things get a little bit more interesting. But this is basically a greatly simplified model of a clutch. (For a real clutch, you also need to consider the flywheel.)