As far as the conventionality of simultaneity goes, let me make one quick remark. I suspect that some 90% of the readers of the thread don't know any physics other than the high school version of Newton's laws. And if you are going to use Newton's laws (F=ma and all that), even in the low speed limit, following the Einstein clock synchronization convention is a "required option". I.e. it's optional whether or not you use it, you'll just get the wrong answers if you don't.
The errors may not be terribly large if your synchronization is "close" to Einstein's, but they'll be there. You'll see issues like two equal masses colliding at equal but oppositely directed velocities (as measured by your chosen synchronization scheme) not coming to rest.
If you are using a formulation of physics that allows for generalized coordinates (for instance a Lagrangian formulation), these remarks do not directly apply - though as I recall it turns out to be a bit trickier than it looks to find the correct Lagrangian when you change your definition of simultaneity.
I think a lot of readers mistakenly assume that simultaneity being "conventional" means that Newton's laws work with the different possible choices, and this isn't the case.