And the point (usually) of considering accelerating rockets is to introduce gravitational time dilation, through the equivalence principle. The corresponding comparison on Earth is to keep one clock at the top of a mountain and another clock at the bottom of the mountain. After 10 years, you reunite the clocks and compare their elapsed times. GR predicts that the one on the top of the mountain will show more elapsed time than the one at the bottom. So it's not just a matter of time lag for light signals.
You're certainly right, that acceleration doesn't cause time dilation, but I made that point clear in my post: It doesn't cause time dilation, but it causes a different amount of time dilation for clocks at different locations within a rocket.
What is interesting about time discrepancy between clocks at different locations within an accelerating rocket is that there are two effects that work together:
- The time lag for light signals gives the appearance of differential time dilation.
- The variation in velocity between front and rear (due to length contraction) gives an additional discrepancy.
The sum of these two effects gives a constant, height-dependent apparent time dilation. For a long voyage, effect number 1 dominates early on, while effect number 2 dominates once the rocket is moving relativistically.