By looking through some references I managed to find a really elegant derivation of the gain of a differential amplifier...I never thought the hyperbolic tangent function would show up here! I'll write it out since I need practice with LaTeX and it might help someone who is working through the same material.

[tex]I_e = e^\frac{Vbe}{V_t}[/tex]
So
[tex]V_{be} = V_t ln I_e[/tex]
[tex]V_{dif} = V_{be1} - V_{be2} = V_t ln I_{e1} - V_t ln I_{e2} = <br />
Vt ln \frac{I_e1}{I_e2}[/tex]So
[tex]e^\frac{V_{dif}}{V_t} = \frac{I_e1}{I_e2}[/tex]
[tex]\frac{I_{c1}}{I_{c2}} = \frac{\alpha I_{e1}}{\alpha I_{e2}} = \frac{I_{e1}}{I_{e2}}[/tex]
The differential current ratio is:
[tex]\frac{I_{c1} - I_{c2}}{I_{c1} + I_{c2}} = \frac{e^\frac{V_{dif}}{V_t} - 1}{e^\frac{V_{dif}}{V_t} + 1} = tanh(\frac{V_{diff}}{2V_t})[/tex]
So by multiplying the differential current ratio top and bottom by the collector load resistance we can do this:
[tex]\frac{R_c(I_{c1} - I_{c2})}{Rc(I_{c1} + I_{c2})} = \frac{V_{o1} - V_{o2}}{Rc(I_{c1} + I_{c2})} = \frac{V_{od}}{R_c \alpha I_o}[/tex]
Where Io is the current through both emitters of the differential pair and alpha is the common base current gain.
Setting the two equations equal we finally have:
[tex]\frac{V_{od}}{R_c \alpha I_o} = tanh(\frac{V_{dif}}{2V_t})[/tex]
[tex]V_{od} = R_c \alpha I_o tanh(\frac{V_{dif}}{2V_t})[/tex].
For small signals, [tex]tanh(\frac{V_{dif}}{2V_t}) \approx \frac{V_{dif}}{2V_t}[/tex] and alpha can be taken to be 1, so we get for small signal gain:
[tex]V_{od} = R_c\frac{I_o}{2V_t}[/tex].
For large signals, the transfer function of the amplifier behaves just like the hyperbolic tangent function: it's linear in a small region around the quiescent point, but goes asymptotic as the voltage increases or decreases beyond this linear region and the input transistor saturates or goes into cutoff.