Begin by studying elementary logic and basic set theory - how to deal with the quantifiers "for each" and "there exists", DeMorgan's laws and things like that. You can't learn abstract topics merely by vsualizing pictures or forming intuitive concepts. Abstract mathematics involves a legalistic approach. It has much to do with using precise language.
Completely disagree. Logic and set theory are fine, but depreciating visualization and intuition is not fine. It's partly a matter of style. Not everyone has to do math the same way. There are also different subjects that require different approaches and varying degrees of visualization. Visualization is key for me because visualization enhances memory. One of the reasons why I'm relatively good at math is my interest in the psychology of learning. A massive amount of our brain is involved with processing visual stimulus, so when you visualize math, you can tap into that. Logic and set theory in math are sort of analogous to spelling in writing. Yes, you should learn to spell, but you shouldn't get the impression that's all there is.
Visualization was key to my success at math, and although I am sort of a failure at doing research, I did manage to get a PhD, so I must have been doing something right. To the extent that I was successful at research, proving some new theorems in topological quantum field theory, visualization was essential--so, it wasn't that trying to visualize too much stuff was holding me back, except possibly in terms of spending too much time on the side, trying to develop more intuitive pictures of math (and physics) completely unrelated to my research (that's really more a question of not being willing to specialize). I'm just not good at managing huge tasks like writing dissertations and so on, and I just wasn't that interested in the stuff I was working on, which makes it very hard.
http://terrytao.wordpress.com/career-advice/there%E2%80%99s-more-to-mathematics-than-rigour-and-proofs/
By the way, Tao has a lot of advice on how to become a mathematician elsewhere on his website.
Math develops in a lot of different ways. Sometimes visual, sometimes not. A lot of the stuff that may have been discovered by brute force calculations and clever ideas of how to carry them out can later be interpreted more geometrically, which makes it more interesting and easier to remember.
At the same time, you have to use some practical psychology. Legalism is repulsive to most people. There are certainly topics in mathematics that make no sense to me and when I began to read about them. I don't understand why the definitions are written as they are and why there is any interest in the theorems. If you are inclined (or compelled) to study such mathematics, you just have to calm yourself down. Even if you are studying as a hobby or recreation then being calm is helpful.
Being calm is fine, but you might achieve more if you, instead, searched for a different book that presents the material less dogmatically. John Stillwell, Vladimir Arnold, David Bressoud, Tristan Needham, and Cornelius Lanczos are examples of authors who actually explain math, instead of merely presenting it.
Niaboc67, you should read Visual Complex Analysis. If it's too expensive for you, see if you can get it from a library and there are samples of it available online.
http://usf.usfca.edu/vca//