Newton's Third Law, Conceptual Post
When an object collides with another object, the second object exerts and equal and opposite force upon the first.
When objects interact, they only do it at the same moment. One object cannot hit another without the other one not hitting it. There is no such thing as action, then reaction. (At least, in the simultaneous sense.)
One object cannot touch another without being touched. When two objects touch, one cannot touch the other even just a little bit more than the other.
One object cannot push on another object more than the other pushes back. The amount of force exerted by one, is the amount of force exerted by the other. If this were not so, then one would have to touch the other longer without be touched, so that extra force could be applied. This never happens, because force cannot occur between objects, unless they touch. Try pushing on space, neglecting air resistance and gravity. Feel any force?
If you tried to push on an object but your force was less than the force that the object pushed on you, then part of the object you push on would not move. It would not move because the force necessary to move it would not be there. It would have to do something like magically pass through your hand, which never happens.
Hope that helps.