Dotini said:
Science fiction is the form of literature which tells a story embroidered with props and sets like spaceships and light sabers.
The main point is that science fiction, particularly commercially successful science fiction, is fundamentally a good story. Spaceships and light sabers are merely furniture, much like the castles, knights and dragons in the medieval fantasy Game of Thrones are merely furniture in an exceptionally well told tale.
I think this is far too simplistic a view. There's an entire wealth of science fiction that has nothing to do with space, or light sabers or lasers or any other of these types of plot devices. Indeed I'd say you can't really define a genre just by its plot devices (though obviously it plays a part). I've seen this discussion repeated over and over by fans and authors alike and I don't think there really is a solid answer. Even if a firm definition was made there would always be new stories that push the boundaries and have people scratching their heads again.
At best I think there are themes and plot devices that you tend to find in books of certain genres but that doesn't make those things exclusive, or necessary. For example:
A story is likely SF if it features:
1) A potential and expectation for things to get better over time AKA science marches on
2) Technology more capable of what we possesses IRL
3) Phenomena explicitly or implicitly stated to be natural and amenable to scientific study
4) A setting in the future, either a direct future of ours IRL or an alternate universe
A story is likely fantasy if it features:
1) An explicit or implicit theme that there were greater places/weapons/abilities in the past AKA ancient magics
2) Recognisable examples of primitive technology
3) Phenomena that are supernatural in nature and defy (or lack) scientific study
4) A setting in the past, either a direct past of ours IRL or an alternative universe
These a rough guidelines to what you might expect but they aren't absolute. There are fantasy books in which magic is studied scientifically and used to make advanced technology, there is science fiction set in the past, there are works of science fiction that use psychic powers and treat them no differently to magic in fantasy, there are fantasy stories in which the other races are aliens and not based on folk law etcetera etcetera. Then there are subgenres that straddle both genres and neither at the same time. Steampunk for example which is often set in an alternate past and features advanced technology based on primitive technology and may include magic, science, zombies and whatever.
At this point the only thing I have left to add is to reiterate my earlier reply in this thread: in many ways dividing up media by genre is an impossible thing to do. It's convenient for describing to an audience what to expect and it's very convenient for outlets to class their stock (romance films on that shelf, science fiction books over there) but it's fundamentally flawed. That's why I think it will be interesting to see how the rise of digital media might change things especially with some form of tagging system. Why stick with just labelling your story science fiction? If it predominantly features action in space with a strong romantic subplot then tag it with "action" "space" and "romance". Anything labelled like that is likely to be more informative than one ill defined category.