Yes that's what I'm saying, but in order to not misinterpret, in the most general case this should be understood as an evolutionary process where both matter/observers and spacetime evolves together. Also when i write "you" i meant the physical system that is the observer.
I just realized that it may be hard to explain and motivate my arguments without peaking into the other can of worms:
What I am suggesting is that the environment limts what kind of subsystems that can be stable in long term. You can always throw a whale into the jungle, or you can throw an ice crytal into the sun, but it will not last long there.
So the forming process i talk about, is a deep way in how the particle zoo AND the laws for their interactions, evolve together. This is my core insight i was proposing, and it can be interpreted as observer - observer interactions. But formally this is just an interpretation at this point. The mature mathematics or algorithms needed to describe this interaction process is yet to be written.
I think the apparently strange conclusions here originate not from my interpretation but from strange premises in the question given. One usually takes examples, such as a CAT insted of an electron, just so that the conclusion should seem faulty. But let's realize how hard not to say practically impossible it would be to construct a real cat in a quantum mechanical superposition? It is not theoretically impossible, but practically impossible. So no wonder the conclusion does not comply to common sense. But note that the premise is not common in the first place.
IF you want a conceptual analogy for humans, consider how even classical rumours and reputation on the stock market, that are widely spread creates an stable illusion of value, indistiguishable from the real thing. Similarly, rumours can decrease value by same mechanism. But similarly the bigger "lie" you try to market, the less likely is it to survive.
IF you want everyday examples that give insights to this "thinking", better than picturing cats in the box, is to look at rational player game theory and economic and social interactions. They are full of these things! Now try to understand how that works - shave off the irrelevant parts and take the abstraction - then apply it to physics, and this is where my interpretation stands. The big difference is that traditional thinking in physics is that particle zoo and laws are immutable. This is NOT how things work in social of ecnomical systes. The laws and the plays are subject to evolution and negotiation. And just like smoling also argued in his evolution of law - this must be the case also for the most fundamental laws we know of, the laws of physics. They are not mathematical eternal truth, as that attitude seems untenable. For arguments for THAT check out
Time reborn.
So does mean i mean electrons do probabilistic estimates? No - particles don't to calculus and stuff liek that, instead there "computation" is simply in my view shifting and morphing its of its own microstructure. This is why "computational power" is reduces as we reach unification scale, and why the interactions rules are necessarily simpler.
So in summary, this is an "interpration" but which implicitly has a ambition of reconstruction of QM in mind. In sensse i suppose other interpretations like Bohmian mechanics also hides such an ambition. And interestingly there is a conection point i see between the information coded in the internal structrure and what Demystifiers calls "solipsist HV". In a way, this idea and Bohmian mechanics are on first sight as perpendicular as you can possible imagine, this is why i really find this worth mentioning again.
See
https://www.physicsforums.com/threa...e-orthodox-quantum-mechanics-comments.924068/
and
https://arxiv.org/abs/1112.2034
/Fredrik