The current status is that we have a well-established quantum theory of elementary particles, the Standard Model, which is formulated in flat Minkowski space. At the same time we have a well-established classical theory of gravitation, which is General Relativity.
What we also have to some extent is quantum field theory in some not too complicated "curved" spacetimes. The crux here is to define proper asymptotic free states.
The big question is, whether there is a consistent quantum theory of gravity itself. It's hard to find it, because it's hard to find quantum effects of gravitation, because where the gravitational is detectable, it's from large macroscopic bodies, usually astronomical ones. Note that we just have the phantastic results from LIGO/VIRGO concerning (classical) gravitational waves from black-hole mergers and (much more interesting for my taste) the first from a neutron-star merger, which was also observed over a large range of wavelength in the electromagnetic spectrum. I'm also quite sceptical whether there's a chance to observe quantum effects of gravity in the near future, but you never know. With the gravitational waves, and I'm pretty sure with the recent success the measurements will get more and more refined pretty quickly, and this literally opens a entirely new window into the cosmos, and it might well be that multi-messenger astronomy (including electromagnetic and gravitational waves as well as neutrinos, where ICECUBE has made a breakthrough recently too) may give a hint at which direction the theory of quantum gravity has to take.
I do not understand which experiment you propose concerning the double-slit experiment.