friend said:
I can't accept MWi. As I understand it, universes split off when an interaction takes place
Then you don't understand it. Universes splitting off would be massive new physics. Entangement can be formulated as relative states which can be interpreted as different worlds in the sense I just explained.
friend said:
and an eigenstate is selected.
There is no selection of an eigenstate in MWI. You can put your mathematical hat on and analyse the relative states in terms of eigenstates if you want to but nature does not do anything of the kind, the system just rolls along unaware that its observing itself and not making any kind of selection. That's the whole point of MWI.
MWI is, of course, augmented by decoherence theory, and this explains a preferred basis and einselection. But this is a result of modern MWI, it is not a fundamantal supposition.
friend said:
If an interaction forces a split, then by definition those alternate universes can no longer interact. If we cannot interact with it, then we cannot observe it. So MWi becomes an inherently unprovable hypothesis by definition. We cannot even write a theory for things we cannot interact with.
Well, there is no split in MWI. The popularist picture of parallel universes was, I believe, added by de Witt, but in any case is superfluous baggage - an interpretation of an interpretation that only serves to detract from the simplicity of MWI.
It is true that we cannot interact with the other worlds. However, we can certainly interact with other worlds which cannot interact with each other - and they produce effects in our world. The apparent contradiction here is that there is not just a single set of alternative worlds but many. "Inhabitants" (to pursue the metaphor) of one world in a set cannot interact with other worlds in the set. But they can and do interact with worlds in other sets. Fun for logicians - each world in a set contains all the other sets of worlds...
friend said:
All I am relying on is the math that stipulates that eigenvalues are selected. I don't care what the interpretation is.
The maths says no such thing. Such selection is postulated in some formulations of QM. It can be safely dropped in MWI, added by hand or a similar result though not identical can be derived.