scrappykoala said:
...So I plug along alone with no input and try and figure it out on my own.
And its fustrating at times but fascinating none the less.
I have more questions now but I am a bit afraid to ask as the last thing I want is to cut off my only bridge.
I'll go slow and careful and continue on my own and hope for the best. I guess its not the end of the world or even my own if I don't get this or that so no need for violins. Maybe this is how this is supposed to be. Too crazy to talk to friends and family about. I don't know of any other subject like this that is sooooo far out there in its fascination and seemingly appeal and yet so few are interested or can get over some of the quarks. Makes it more interesting I guess.
I think you will find this a receptive area for discussion. This board consists of a lot of folks with varying backgrounds, many quite like yourself.
The trick is to make sure you at least understand some of the basics and key arguments before trying to insert your own interpretations and ideas. So as you learn the lingo, you will also learn how to ask your next questions. The best way is to ask a few questions (which you have), read the responses, search a bit on your own, and then repeat. Jumping off the cliff to start with is not recommended.
I am called a science advisor. All that means is that I have hung around here for a while and posted comments that certain others consider beneficial. It does not mean I am "right" about anything. Anyone can answer any question, and often the sum of the responses prove much more valuable than any single response. The reason I mention this is that you would do good to re-read some of the standard material along with these responses. If, then, you still have some questions, you can ask them in a manner which evidences the understanding you have gained from your prior work.
For example: Can particle "intelligence" explain the double slit results? The answer is NO, not unless it is non-local. If it is non-local, then it could. This is a scientific assessment based on the results of experiments. Next you have to ask, what would "non-local intelligence" be? The answer to that, for most scientists, would be god. Invoking god, on the other hand, could be used to explain anything: from the big bang to evolution. So really, it explains nothing. More importantly, it is not a useful description of anything and so does not constitute good science. And again, has nothing to do with quantum mechanics.
The point is, you must decide if you are here to learn or tell others something. Sometimes I am here to learn, other times I am here to tell others something. I try to know when I am telling someone something that they might find useful.
PS No apology needed, although I appreciate your re-reading my response. We have all been in the same boat at one point or another.