Why Do Fathers Experience Premature Graying?

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The discussion centers around a father expressing pride and concern for his daughter's adventurous pursuits, including climbing and flying. Participants share light-hearted banter about the stress these activities cause, particularly the father's increasing gray hair. The conversation touches on the importance of teaching young people the difference between fear and danger, with references to risk assessment in military training. The daughter is noted for her accomplishments in flying, including passing her FAA written test and participating in aerobatics, which adds to the father's pride but also his anxiety. Humor is prevalent as they discuss the potential for her to take on even more extreme activities like skydiving. The thread concludes with shared experiences and reflections on parenting, highlighting the balance of pride and worry that comes with watching children pursue their passions.
  • #51
Onetime while talking with my adult children they began to relate some of their exploits as kids. At one point I had to say stop I do not need to know anymore thank you. Even my sister once remarked "If only mom an dad know what I did" OK I was not perfect.
 
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  • #52
I'm glad my folks don't know most of what I got into in my teens.
 
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  • #53
nuuskur said:
I'm glad my folks don't know most of what I got into in my teens.
I wish my folks hadn't know ANY of what I got into. Especially the time dad discovered my fifty+ pints of hard cider.
 
  • #54
Why do fathers get grey hair. One answer: puberty.

Full disclosure: my daughter has hit puberty, and I currently have a nice white beard.

nuuskur said:
I'm glad my folks don't know most of what I got into in my teens.

In the old days, parents worried because they didn't know what their teens were getting up to. In these "modern times", parents worry because they can imagine (possibly from their own teen years :wink:) what their teens are getting up to.
 
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  • #55
nuuskur said:
I'm glad my folks don't know most of what I got into in my teens.
I've heard that kids are punishment for what you did when you were younger. In that case, it's good that I never had kids. :oldtongue:
 
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  • #56
dlgoff said:
Yes. Really proud of her.

And you have every right to be :smile:

Sigh, why haven't I seen this thread earlier.
 
  • #57
Borek said:
And you have every right to be :smile:
Thanks for saying that Sir.
Sigh, why haven't I seen this thread earlier.
No worries.
I'm sure you have plenty of other threads to go through in your mentoring.
 
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  • #58
This is how I visit the Red Rocks Amphitheatre:
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image compliments of https://www.flickr.com/photos/shopcartbandit/2075599035

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This is how my daughter visits the Red Rocks Amphitheatre:
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More gray hair. :oldfrown:
 

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  • #59
High and fast means safe :smile:
 
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  • #60
davenn said:
... you have to be incredibly proud of her
Congrats on her flying achievements. I have only had the controls of a light aircraft like that once.
I'm extra proud today. Friday she took the FAA written test needed to get her pilot certification. She missed one question; and she's beating herself up for missing it. Go figure; but that's my daughter. Now all she needs to do is get the required flying hours. She tells me that she is planing on getting an instrument rating certification but that will be down the road.

Proud Dad expressed his pride for her accomplishments.
 
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  • #61
dlgoff said:
I'm extra proud today. Friday she took the FAA written test needed to get her pilot certification. She missed one question; and she's beating herself up for missing it. Go figure; but that's my daughter. Now all she needs to do is get the required flying hours. She tells me that she is planing on getting an instrument rating certification but that will be down the road.

Proud Dad expressed his pride for her accomplishments.
Awesome news... my congratulations on passing that stage :smile:

Dave
 
  • #62
dlgoff said:
I'm extra proud ...
and getting grayer too. Misty took off, flew, and landed this jet this week:

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  • #63
Dang.
Can't stop that girl!
 
  • #64
dlgoff said:
and getting grayer too. Misty took off, flew, and landed this jet this week:
ohhh WOW, that's an outstanding advancement :smile:
 
  • #65
You have a very accomplished adrenaline junkie there.
 
  • #66
marcusl said:
adrenaline junkie
You know, you may have something here. :oldsmile:
 
  • #67
I'm surprised this thread hasn't been closed since it's been so long since I've posted to it. Today is my daughter's 30th birthday and after wishing her a happy birthday in an email, this is what she replied she was doing for the day:
I'm doing some aerobatics today so I think that's a pretty good birthday.
 
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  • #68
dlgoff said:
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2019 CIRRUS SF50 G2 Vision Jet
Williams International FJ33
Dual Channel Full Authority Digital Engine Control (FADEC)
1846lb Thrust Rating

Base Aircraft Price (USD) $2,315,000
 
  • #69
Your daughter seems really cool. Lucky her to have these opportunities. And, I'll add, as a former skydiver and rock climber I don't think what she's pictured as doing is really that dangerous. Exciting, fun, a little bit dangerous maybe.
 
  • #70
Astronuc said:
2019 CIRRUS SF50 G2 Vision Jet
Williams International FJ33
Dual Channel Full Authority Digital Engine Control (FADEC)
1846lb Thrust Rating

Base Aircraft Price (USD) $2,315,000
Wow. I had no idea. Glad she didn't hurt it.
 
  • #71
dlgoff said:
I'm surprised this thread hasn't been closed since it's been so long since I've posted to it. Today is my daughter's 30th birthday and after wishing her a happy birthday in an email, this is what she replied she was doing for the day:
My daughter just sent me some photos of the airplanes she's been doing acrobatics with. She is in the beginning stage of her training, so her instructor is doing most of the hard maneuvers. On the phone she said during one maneuver, they were pulling 8 Gs. :bugeye:

She looks happy:
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Here are the two planes she been training in:
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  • #72
dlgoff said:
She looks happy:
Cute necklace (and appropriate). She may want to put it in her pocket while doing aerobatics, though, to keep from getting distracted by it flipping all over the place. :smile:
 
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  • #73
berkeman said:
Cute necklace (and appropriate). She may want to put it in her pocket while doing aerobatics, though, to keep from getting distracted by it flipping all over the place. :smile:
Thanks @berkeman. I'll mention this to her.

edit: I just emailed her about this. Thanks again.
 
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  • #74
here's a pic of my daughter learning to fly the acrobatics airplane:

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  • #75
I'm surprised the picture was taken with the sky on top.
Mostly.
 
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  • #76
Here are some pics my daughter posted on FaceBook:
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I think this is her favorite plane:
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This is the acrobat team I think:
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  • #78
Yeah, I wondered about those extra-large tires. I assumed that they were using some dirt/grass runways or something similar.
 
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  • #79
berkeman said:
Yeah, I wondered about those extra-large tires. I assumed that they were using some dirt/grass runways or something similar.
I really don't know, but I just emailed her and asked that she revisit this thread and see the comments about those FB pics I posted.
 
  • #80
jrmichler said:
That's not an aerobatic plane.
Any plane is an aerobatic plane if you are motivated enough.
 
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  • #81
Vanadium 50 said:
Any plane is an aerobatic plane if you are motivated enough.
That can easily not end well. I once listened to creaking noises coming from the wings of an Aeronca Champ while graying out coming down the backside of a loop while approaching redline airspeed. A non aerobatic airplane will do aerobatics, but at the cost of too many safety factors approaching 1.0 at the same time.

A student pilot, of the spoiled rich kid variety, did a loop in a Cessna 150. He succeeded, but bent the flap mechanism. He was thrown out of the flying school, and the airplane repaired.

A couple hotshot pilots during WWII read that it was impossible to loop a PBY-5A. The book was both right and wrong. They successfully looped the plane, but the entire trailing edge of the wing buckled upward about 2/3 the way back from the leading edge. They successfully landed it, but it never flew again. My father swore up and down that he was not one of those pilots, but he did admit to being there.
 
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  • #83
My Daughter is at a competition. Here's the flight pattern that she will be flying:
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  • #84
Astronuc said:
That's actually a bargain.

HondaJet's Elite costs $5.25 million (it's twin engine)

https://www.businessinsider.com/hon...ide-hondas-5-million-private-jet-cabin-2019-6
This is what my daughter said when I asked her if she would like to own one.

Honda jets are nice, we got a few when I worked at Denver jetCenter so I've seen them. I wouldn't care to own a jet. I'd rather have a single-engine bush or aerobatic-type plane for fun.
 
  • #85
There are over a dozen F-14's on the government surplus list. I see them every time I look for chairs and desks. It's a twin engine, but I am sure your daughter can adapt.

It's also a two-seater, so you could ride along. Wheeeee!
 
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  • #86
This is the same plane I flew while playing LASER tag with someone else who didn't know how to fly - Marchetti SF – 260. Did a barrel roll and a 5g loop as well. Having never flown a plane before, getting one hour of training and then jumping into real dog fights was insanely intense to say the least! But there was a top gun pilot sitting next to me who could take over if we got into trouble. The scariest part was not the 30 seconds of parachute training I received. It was his verbal instructions: "If the plane catches on fire, just go ahead and jump. I'll stay with the plane." :))

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  • #87
Here's a happy photo of my daughter learning to acrobat fly:
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  • #88
dlgoff said:
Here's a happy photo of my daughter learning to acrobat fly:
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Great pic.
 
  • #89
dlgoff said:
Here's a happy photo of my daughter learning to acrobat fly
Is the picture right-side-up?
 
  • #90
Vanadium 50 said:
Is the picture right-side-up?
I don't know. Doesn't look like it. I'll have to ask her.
 
  • #91
dlgoff said:
I don't know. Doesn't look like it. I'll have to ask her.
If she was upside down her hair wouldn't be sitting on her shoulder.
 
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  • #92
Ivan Seeking said:
If she was upside down her hair wouldn't be sitting on her shoulder.
Oh yea. Your right.
 
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  • #93
Ivan Seeking said:
If she was upside down her hair wouldn't be sitting on her shoulder.
If she's looping the loop her hair would be on her shoulder even when the plane was upside down, due to the g force.
 
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  • #94
Ivan Seeking said:
If she was upside down her hair wouldn't be sitting on her shoulder.
Mousse. Lots of mousse.
 
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  • #95
Here's my daughter with the acrobat team (the girl with her hand on the prop):
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  • #96
Ibix said:
If she's looping the loop her hair would be on her shoulder even when the plane was upside down, due to the g force.
If she was doing a loop I don't think she would be looking away from the window and controls.
 
  • #97
dlgoff said:
Here's my daughter with the acrobat team (the girl with her hand on the prop):
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Yeah she doesn't seem to like this much. :oldlaugh: Next up, skydiving!
 
  • #98
Ivan Seeking said:
If she was doing a loop I don't think she would be looking away from the window and controls.
It's best to just close your eyes.
 
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  • #99
Vanadium 50 said:
It's best to just close your eyes.
The natural tendency is to keep making the radius of the loop tighter and tighter as you near the end. I think most people would need to look at their instruments to be sure they make a circle.
 
  • #100
Here's the latest from my daughter:
I'm not sure how the quality is but I attached a video of me running through my primary sequence. This was a practice flight from last week. It is not the best as I was still learning but this is in an Xtreme Decathlon. This plane is the pane that I have been practicing in for weeks and up to the day of the competition. It ended up breaking and I had to compete in a comparable but still different airplane that I had never flown before. I was very sad about that because I had my routine down quite well. I didn't fly very well in the other plane but i still managed to pull it together on my second flight and place 2nd.
The video has the wrong extension to attach.
 

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