Why do girls think everyone wants them all the time?

[baywax]

Told you so Moonbear, you owe me a dollar. Moonbear thought you were gay.

Well... I am extremely happy.

Actually, I'm a hetrodude like my avitar and I'm aspiring to be a lesbian. But, even though I have most of the prerequisites (a love of women), they won't let me in the club.

 

[mcknia07]

So you thoroughly know billions of people?

Well, no...

 

[Moonbear]

I have pretended to be a girl (and embarassingly, have been rather popular in the role), and my experiences do not coincide with yours. While it's possible that I am just really, really dense, I find it more likely that one of the following is the culprit:
(1) You attract/seek out that kind of person
(2) You are reading too much into peoples' actions
(3) You elicit such attitudes from others
(4) Selective recall (could be on my end or your end)
(5) Statistical variance

Let's not forget that usually you're the one telling me I'm turning chat naughty. I think and talk about sex all day long! Okay, not quite as much as when it was my full time research job, but since I'm giving the repro lectures in anatomy now, yep, I'm talking about sex to a lot of people.

I think men and women think about sex just as much, the only difference is men only talk about it with other men unless they have a specific female partner to discuss it with, while women talk to anyone about it.

 

[baywax]

I think men and women think about sex just as much, the only difference is men only talk about it with other men unless they have a specific female partner to discuss it with, while women talk to anyone about it.

By sex do you mean gender or the act?

I think women are wanted because the media has been using the image of women as a dangling carrot for products, in the west, for the past 90 years. This has led to the elevated status of women as being desirable. The middle class and lower class men, for the most part, are expendable and usually sent to war to be slaughtered, leaving less competition for the remaining elite male to pursue the coveted women. Too bad. I say too bad because the elite male is either going to be a really lousy lover or gay or both or bi or completely disinterested in the long run.

 

[Mk]

I think men and women think about sex just as much, the only difference is men only talk about it with other men unless they have a specific female partner to discuss it with, while women talk to anyone about it.

Moonbear is so wise.

 

[Evo]

I don't discuss sex with anyone except the person involved. I don't wish to share personal experiences with people and I am not interested in what others have to say about their sex life either.

 

[fileen]

I don't discuss sex with anyone except the person involved. I don't wish to share personal experiences with people and I am not interested in what others have to say about their sex life either.

YAY someone with some self respect! I am with you all the way!

 

[baywax]

I don't discuss sex with anyone except the person involved.

Intimacy rocks. Oops... that's a personal preference... sorry... don't read that as a discussion about sex please.

I think another reason for the elevated status of women in the eyes of many men is the fact that their mommy was a woman. Generally that's a good thing. In rare cases mommy drove them into a lake and tried to drown them.

 

[lisab]

I don't discuss sex with anyone except the person involved. I don't wish to share personal experiences with people and I am not interested in what others have to say about their sex life either.

I'm with you on this Evo. I guess I'm old fashioned...I'm shocked at some of the intimate things some will share with people they hardly know!

 

[fileen]

I'm with you on this Evo. I guess I'm old fashioned...I'm shocked at some of the intimate things some will share with people they hardly know!

I grew up without television and I never went to school. Sheltered yes but I am so glad my parents made that decision because I learned everything from them and took their values with me. Sex was described to me as a beautiful and sacred thing that two people share that is private and intimate. I've heard of 10 year olds giving BJ's on the school yard. Ones virginity is often given away without thought, and multiple partners seems to be the norm. If women are sexualized its their own fault because they let it happen. I am not suggesting its ok, but when you dress such that there's no question what youd look like without your clothes on, and sleep with anyone who looks sideways at you, you have to expect it. No one is going to respect you if you don't respect yourself

 

[Kurdt]

It seems lots of people confuse biological imperative with false romantic conceit.

 

[baywax]

It is odd that we can all feel ok discussing the intimate pleasures of eating chocolate yet many will freeze up when the discussion turns to activities like sex. How many times have you heard someone say how they have to pee so bad they're going to burst? Rarely does a woman or man declare his or her urge to engage in sexual intimacy. Both peeing and sexual activity are intimate functions of a body yet only one, regarding excrement, is deemed worthy of sharing with other people. How odd.

 

[Evo]

It is odd that we can all feel ok discussing the intimate pleasures of eating chocolate yet many will freeze up when the discussion turns to activities like sex. How many times have you heard someone say how they have to pee so bad they're going to burst? Rarely does a woman or man declare his or her urge to engage in sexual intimacy. Both peeing and sexual activity are intimate functions of a body yet only one, regarding excrement, is deemed worthy of sharing with other people. How odd.

Peeing is something I have to do, and usually have to do it in stalls next to someone doing the same thing. I don't describe it to other people, and there is not another person involved in me doing it. I don't discuss something I do intimately with my "partner" with other people, it's also out of their right to privacy as well.

 

[baywax]

Peeing is something I have to do, and usually have to do it in stalls next to someone doing the same thing. I don't describe it to other people, and there is not another person involved in me doing it. I don't discuss something I do intimately with my "partner" with other people, it's also out of their right to privacy as well.

I only hope all Americans share your ideals about privacy rights. Canada was big on that until one of Bush's lap dogs became Prime Minister. CCTV cameras are sprouting up everywhere. Even washrooms.

 

[Moonbear]

I don't discuss sex with anyone except the person involved. I don't wish to share personal experiences with people and I am not interested in what others have to say about their sex life either.

And the irony is, you just talked about it. I'm not talking about people sharing intimate details, but just talking about sex in general.

Actually, the best indicator I've ever found for knowing when a guy is in a really good relationship with someone he loves is he doesn't talk about sex anymore. When it means something, they keep their thoughts quiet.

 

[tribdog]

Yeah, I don't talk or brag about my sex life. I think the videos speak for themselves.

 

[Kurdt]

Actually, the best indicator I've ever found for knowing when a guy is in a really good relationship with someone he loves is he doesn't talk about sex anymore. When it means something, they keep their thoughts quiet.

Or they've gone for so long they've forgotten about it.

 

[baywax]

Or they've gone for so long they've forgotten about it.

Forgotten about what?

 

[Kurdt]

Forgotten about what?

I can't remember

 

[Moonbear]

Or they've gone for so long they've forgotten about it.

 

[Art]

The answer to the question, 'Why do girls think everyone wants them all the time?'
is simply - because they are wrong.

In general men only want them for an hour or two. 'All the time' gets in the way of important things like football and drinking with their buddies

The commonly held perception that men are more predatory than women when it comes to sex is probably widely believed because it's true. It's simple supply and demand. There are always a lot more males willing to indulge in casual sex than women and so there is a lot of jostling amongst the males to find the more 'obliging' women and unfortunately this view of men as sexual predators is reinforced as there are too many men who don't take no for an answer which gives the rest of us a bad name. Too many men seem to think twisting a girl's arm up behind her back until she says yes equals consensual sex

Btw does nobody else think there is something more than a little creepy about the number of men on here who admit to pretending to be a female on line?

 

[Topher925]

Btw does nobody else think there is something more than a little creepy about the number of men on here who admit to pretending to be a female on line?

Ha! I used to do that when I was 12 when I would go and talk to people in lesbian chat rooms.

 

[Art]

Ha! I used to do that when I was 12 when I would go and talk to people in lesbian chat rooms.

Uhh okay...

 

[baywax]

Btw does nobody else think there is something more than a little creepy about the number of men on here who admit to pretending to be a female on line?

I was joking. Doesn't convey well in black and white pixels.

But I am in touch with my feminine side.
Quite often its says, "Don't touch me there! I don't even touch myself there!"

 

[Art]

I was joking. Doesn't convey well in black and white pixels.

But I am in touch with my feminine side.
Quite often its says, "Don't touch me there! I don't even touch myself there!"

lol I wasn't referring to you baywax, I understood you were joking and I wasn't limiting my observation to only this thread.

 

[john16O]

Ha! I used to do that when I was 12 when I would go and talk to people in lesbian chat rooms.

yyyeeeaahh, there are some things that you just might want to keep to yourself and not actually admit to, especially over the net where everything is up to interpretation...

 

[baywax]

lol I wasn't referring to you baywax, I understood you were joking and I wasn't limiting my observation to only this thread.

Oh fine, ignore me then... (hee hee)

Another reason why many want women all the time is because they are the spenders in society. At least, they buy stuff other than beer and pay per view.