Why do love songs have such an impact on our emotions?

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In summary, love songs have a distinct sound due to factors such as key, chord progressions, tempo, and timing of phrases. The tension and release of notes in a song can mimic the emotions and interactions of two people in love. This is a subjective process, as different individuals may interpret the tension and release differently. Commercial romantic music often follows a specific formula, but there is room for creativity in inventing new love songs. This can be done by experimenting with different notes, chords, and sequences on an instrument.
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Why do love songs sound the way they do? Even without knowing the lyrics, you can know if a song is a love song or a religious song or just neutral song.. what is in the tone that makes love song romantic? Perhaps the tone can affect some part of the brain or trigger emotional responses?
 
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Partly the key it's in.
Major keys tend to denote happy emotions; minor keys, melancholy.
 
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DaveC426913 said:
Partly the key it's in.
Major keys tend to denote happy emotions; minor keys, melancholy.
Yes, and also the chord progressions, what key/scale being used, the tempo, timing of phrases, and so on. However the most simplistic answer is just a mix of "tension" notes and "release" notes, the timings of it probably mimicking the timings of the interaction of two people in love (aka the courting / flirting / call and response nature of it).
 
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mister mishka said:
Yes, and also the chord progressions, what key/scale being used, the tempo, timing of phrases, and so on. However the most simplistic answer is just a mix of "tension" notes and "release" notes, the timings of it probably mimicking the timings of the interaction of two people in love (aka the courting / flirting / call and response nature of it).

For example in the love song in Titanic's "My Heart will go on".. where is the tension and release notes, and the tempo, timing of phrases?


And in the national anthem of the United States.. the "oh say can you say by the dawn's early lights... ".. any rendition of it that is romantic?
 
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I originally was thinking of the context of I how play improv piano, where if I were feeling romantic, I would instinctively play as such (using a combination of various techniques). However, all music can be broken down into "tension" and "release", the timings / combinations of phrases mimicking ones emotions. Here is where it also gets subjective to some extent, for example I don't feel emotionally connected with that Titanic song, I generate more feelings of annoyance / disgust, rather than romantic. I have a different correlation with that song, where it being repeated so many times in cheesy contexts, that I simply feel more anger then love haha.

Of course I can still recognize it as a somewhat romantic love song, however complex the "groupings" are of tension / release. Do it for yourself, where do you feel there is "tension" in the song, and where do you feel it gets "released"? They can be spefic notes, groups of notes, sequences of notes, very complex compistions of rythems and sounds; but the fundamental tension / release remains the same. In romantic western music, we at least have more well defined tension / release notes that can be used more deliberately. However if using a pentatonic scale for example, there is no tonal tension or release, and thus you would have to figure out other techniques to create some sort of tension, and then release.

If you want a more detailed definition for the style of music you want to categorize as "love songs" given your 2 examples, do a search on famous chord progressions for commercial romantic music. That seems to be quite a formulated thing that they do, at least regarding the tonal qualities of the pieces.
 
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mister mishka said:
I originally was thinking of the context of I how play improv piano, where if I were feeling romantic, I would instinctively play as such (using a combination of various techniques). However, all music can be broken down into "tension" and "release", the timings / combinations of phrases mimicking ones emotions. Here is where it also gets subjective to some extent, for example I don't feel emotionally connected with that Titanic song, I generate more feelings of annoyance / disgust, rather than romantic. I have a different correlation with that song, where it being repeated so many times in cheesy contexts, that I simply feel more anger then love haha.

Of course I can still recognize it as a somewhat romantic love song, however complex the "groupings" are of tension / release. Do it for yourself, where do you feel there is "tension" in the song, and where do you feel it gets "released"? They can be spefic notes, groups of notes, sequences of notes, very complex compistions of rythems and sounds; but the fundamental tension / release remains the same. In romantic western music, we at least have more well defined tension / release notes that can be used more deliberately. However if using a pentatonic scale for example, there is no tonal tension or release, and thus you would have to figure out other techniques to create some sort of tension, and then release.

If you want a more detailed definition for the style of music you want to categorize as "love songs" given your 2 examples, do a search on famous chord progressions for commercial romantic music. That seems to be quite a formulated thing that they do, at least regarding the tonal qualities of the pieces.

Have you tried inventing a new love song? How does one invent new tunes and rhymth? There are fewer love songs now because most tunes have been used already?
 
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Haha the best analogy I can think of is it being like sex, I can describe it to you or you can simply do it yourself. Music is much the same, it is nice to know the theory behind it, but the real learning happens when you do it yourself. You find your own way, thus you start to feel the connection with the music and the relationship builds naturally / intuitively. Music like any art is very subjective, technically any sound can be called music (it all depends on your definition). So what do you specifically want to know? Do you want to learn an instrument? Do you want to compose / categorize / mix music?

As for how I currently "invent" a new piece on the piano, here is what I usually do:
- play some random notes / chords / sequences on the piano
- settle for one that fits my mood (that I feel connected with emotionally)
- figure out what key / scale the keys are in
- try different chord progressions and settle on one that fits my feeling
- play around with various rythems of left and right hands
- once these fundamentals are settled i now usually have enough framework / structure for me to work in that i can simply improvise on the spot / play with my feelings fluidly without thought..

This is only possible because of LOTS of practice, aka the muscel memory "knows" all these complex moves / groupings over many years of playing.
 
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mister mishka said:
Haha the best analogy I can think of is it being like sex, I can describe it to you or you can simply do it yourself. Music is much the same, it is nice to know the theory behind it, but the real learning happens when you do it yourself. You find your own way, thus you start to feel the connection with the music and the relationship builds naturally / intuitively. Music like any art is very subjective, technically any sound can be called music (it all depends on your definition). So what do you specifically want to know? Do you want to learn an instrument? Do you want to compose / categorize / mix music?

As for how I currently "invent" a new piece on the piano, here is what I usually do:
- play some random notes / chords / sequences on the piano
- settle for one that fits my mood (that I feel connected with emotionally)
- figure out what key / scale the keys are in
- try different chord progressions and settle on one that fits my feeling
- play around with various rythems of left and right hands
- once these fundamentals are settled i now usually have enough framework / structure for me to work in that i can simply improvise on the spot / play with my feelings fluidly without thought..

This is only possible because of LOTS of practice, aka the muscel memory "knows" all these complex moves / groupings over many years of playing.

I want to compose a new original love song for my loved one with original tune that is as romantic like the one in "A Thousand Years".. maybe all combinations of tunes were already used up by all the love songs?
 
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It is not really about combinations being used up, but more that combinations keep coming back again and again, because they seem to be so popular with the general public. I had to google that song "A Thousand Years", it is that one from Christina Perri? I am amazed that it has half a billion views (especially after listening to it lol), but yeah it doesn't matter what I think, as long as you feel that you connect with it. From a musical point of view, it is quite a simple song to analyze / reconstruct. However, if you do not know any musical theory or play an instrument, its going to be near impossible for me to explain it to you (especially if you wish to compose music).

What I recommend is to try and learn some basic music theory, then find the music sheets of that song you like, copy it and try to play it on an instrument, then try to analyze the song (find out what key/scale it is in, the tempo and time signature, what the chord progression is, the main phrases and where it repeats). Once you know that, then it is very easy to create your own piece (with your own key/scale, tempo, timings, chord progression, etc). As you see, this will take you some time to learn, but if that passion is there, you will learn.
 
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mister mishka said:
It is not really about combinations being used up, but more that combinations keep coming back again and again, because they seem to be so popular with the general public. I had to google that song "A Thousand Years", it is that one from Christina Perri? I am amazed that it has half a billion views (especially after listening to it lol), but yeah it doesn't matter what I think, as long as you feel that you connect with it. From a musical point of view, it is quite a simple song to analyze / reconstruct. However, if you do not know any musical theory or play an instrument, its going to be near impossible for me to explain it to you (especially if you wish to compose music).

What I recommend is to try and learn some basic music theory, then find the music sheets of that song you like, copy it and try to play it on an instrument, then try to analyze the song (find out what key/scale it is in, the tempo and time signature, what the chord progression is, the main phrases and where it repeats). Once you know that, then it is very easy to create your own piece (with your own key/scale, tempo, timings, chord progression, etc). As you see, this will take you some time to learn, but if that passion is there, you will learn.

Uhmm.. can you share a sample of your original love song composition? maybe post it in youtube or something..
 
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I don't write down my pieces, I improvise them on the piano. However I do have some piano recordings I've done some years ago, but I would have to find where I put the files (which probably are on my old computer). Maybe I find some and upload them to soundcloud ^^

Regarding the song you liked, I found a youtube video showing how to play it on the piano:
 
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mishka, try to listen to these songs..



The tune is just so good, wish it has more positive lyrics.. maybe will compose some lyrics with the same tune.. I think it's tone is better than A Thousand Years. What is your opinion? I can't find a piano version of it like the above you posted.
 

1. What makes a song a "love song"?

A love song is typically defined as a song that expresses feelings of romantic love, passion, affection, or devotion towards another person.

2. How do love songs affect our brain and emotions?

Listening to love songs can stimulate the release of oxytocin and dopamine in our brains, which are neurotransmitters associated with feelings of trust, bonding, and pleasure. This can lead to feelings of happiness, comfort, and emotional connection.

3. Why do we enjoy listening to love songs even if we are not in love?

Love songs can evoke nostalgic memories and emotions, making us feel a sense of comfort and happiness. They can also serve as a form of escapism, allowing us to imagine ourselves in a romantic scenario.

4. Can love songs have a negative impact on our mental health?

While love songs can have a positive effect on our mental health, they can also reinforce unrealistic expectations about love and relationships. This can lead to feelings of disappointment or inadequacy if our own experiences do not match up to the idealized versions portrayed in love songs.

5. Do different cultures have different types of love songs?

Yes, love songs vary greatly across cultures and can reflect different cultural values and traditions. For example, some cultures may have love songs that focus on family and community, while others may emphasize individual passion and desire.

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