"there is a time and a place for everything". Seems to sum it up, everything exists in its own unique time and place, they exist together, in space time, but you cannot be in the same time, or space as anything else. Gravity is everywhere, at infinately different levels, at each level of gravity, therefore at each point in space, will have its very own unique time (or rate of time flow) if observed from outside the system.
When you look at an object you are seeing it in your time, but what you see happened some other time in the past, so in your space you have your very own time, and you have to wait a period of time to observe events that occur in someone elses time.
the only real thing that appears constant in time is that it moves in one direction only, or is zero. And everyone and everything has a unique place in space and time.
That makes me think that if we observe massive objects in space that appear to rotate very fast like pulsars at 600 Revs per second, it that because time is going slower at the pulsar than it is for us, so we observe high rotation speed in our time frame, but if you were on the pulsar with would be very slow rotation.
And on a black hole if time stops, that would imply an infinite rotation speed, in our time, but very slow rotation on the actual black hole, because time is going so slowly, and if not at all, it would have infinite rotation, and on the surface you would see frozen space, and you would have to wait an infinite time to see any movement at all !..