windy miller said:
As I understood, the reason ( or at least one of the reasons) one assumes the singularity is not real is because numbers like density and other features come out as infinity.
This is standard shorthand for "in a limiting process, become unboundedly large", which has a precise mathematical definition.
Let ##a \left( t \right)## be the scale factor of the universe, with ##t## cosmological time. Define ##V \left( a \left( t \right) \right)## by
$$V \left( a \left( t \right) \right) = a \left( t \right)^3.$$
It is true that if ##a \left( t \right) =0##, then ##1/V \left( a \left( t \right) \right)## is undefined, but what is actually meant by the above is
$$ \lim_{t \rightarrow 0} \frac{1}{V \left( a \left( t \right) \right)} = \lim_{t \rightarrow 0} \frac{1}{a \left( t \right)^3} = \infty.$$
This means that given positive any number ##L## (think very large number), there exists a positive number ##\epsilon## (think very small number) such that ##1/V \left( a \left( t \right) \right)## is larger than ##L## whenever ##t## is less than ##\epsilon## (but still positive).
This is an example where the precise mathematical definition of "limit", which many students hate, has easily visualizable physical content.
Similarly,
$$\lim_{t \rightarrow 0} \rho \left( t \right) = \infty,$$
i.e., standard cosmological models predict that for small enough ##t##, density ##\rho## becomes larger than standard physics can handle. Either we need to consider new comsological models which fit all known observations, and for which density does not become too large for standard physics to handle, or we need new physics (and new cosmolgical models). Most physicists think the latter.
We just don't know. This is the nature of scientific research; we try to push the boundary between the known and the unknown.