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Poop-loops, dude, I'm amazed you haven't been kicked off the forums for provoking people like you seem to enjoy doing. Seriously, your being juvenile (I'm 15...).
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Cyrus said:People who are social go out and talk with people that are into things, like culture. Fashion is a part of that local culture and is unique to the group in terms of style. Fashion has been around for hundres of years, to deny its importance is ignorant.
Who wants to be around someone dressed like a bum?
Astronuc said:My preferred fashion back in my younger (and very wild) days at university. I did not like dressing up or dressing pretty, and I still don't.
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I would dress nicely when I went out on a date, but I didn't care for name brands or the preppy look or designer labels.
I never had trouble dating women. I had lots of female friends.
I just had trouble finding one woman with whom I could settle down.
But I did find one, and that's what I looked like about the time when I first met my wife. The picture was taken by my wife's best friend at the time, and the girlfriend of the guy sitting to the right in the picture.
binzing said:Poop-loops, dude, I'm amazed you haven't been kicked off the forums for provoking people like you seem to enjoy doing. Seriously, your being juvenile (I'm 15...).
pivoxa15 said:Staying on the topic but turning the question upside down. Do woman like men that are anti social (i.e. men with no social life)? If so what type of women? How often are they around?
Men tend to internalize their dissappointment, which leads to stress, which can detrimentally affect their health. No one likes rejection - men or women - and that's just human nature.rewebster said:Women do usually like the men to approach first as it gives them the chance of either accepting the guy or not--men are more used to the idea of 'rejection', where I've seen a woman run off crying.
I do. I don't know how common that is.pivoxa15 said:Staying on the topic but turning the question upside down. Do woman like men that are anti social (i.e. men with no social life)? If so what type of women? How often are they around?
I agree with you that clothing is superficial and has no effect on the ability of a person. That's why I discount it. But I understand that people also use it as an expression of personality. Someone who dresses nicely for work is sending the message that they care about what their employer thinks of them and their work. Someone who dresses poorly sends the message that they don't care what their boss thinks of them or their work. While neither affects the actual quality of the work, when it comes time for the promotion, all other variables being equal, the employer is likely going to prefer the person who cares about the position more and strives to perform professionally. I don't like it much, but that is the way it is.Poop-Loops said:It's how I point out the logical fallacies in people's arguments.
People still haven't realized that the only reason they got promotions is because they dressed nicely. And the ones who did (like Moonbear) aren't furious about it. That's just insane.
Every time we had a "dress for success" day at school, it was a load of superficial crap.
I remember one kid who would dress up in a suit to give a presentation for a class (like as a project or something). He sucked. The time he spent on his clothing could have been spent practicing in front of a mirror.
No amount of clothing will substitute for skill. So when you get a raise or promotion simply for changing what you wear, what does that say about your employer, and you?
I knew there was a reason I liked you so muchEvo said:I do. I don't know how common that is.
Evo said:I do. I don't know how common that is.
No social life is what I'm fine with, as in reads a lot, has hobbies or interests that don't require going out in social settings. I've had enough partying and socializing for two lifetimes, I'm ready for quieter times. But I've always been attracted to men that were quieter rather than outgoing.rewebster said:Anti-social is, I think, not the same thing as 'no social life'---and then there's men (and women) who just avoid the 'social life' and entrapments (the things that one has to do and that idea of 'class' if you're talking about the 'upper society life').
Being on PF is social.
Evo said:No social life is what I'm fine with, as in reads a lot, has hobbies or interests that don't require going out in social settings. I've had enough partying and socializing for two lifetimes, I'm ready for quieter times. But I've always been attracted to men that were quieter rather than outgoing.
Cyrus said:Hey, just because I opened the sun roof that one time...
Along the lines of what rewebster mentioned, having "no social life" is more asocial than anti-social.pivoxa15 said:Staying on the topic but turning the question upside down. Do woman like men that are anti social (i.e. men with no social life)? If so what type of women? How often are they around?
Math Is Hard said:You're just asking her to join a study group. It's not a marriage proposal! Ask her and a couple of others to join you. C'mon, loosen up! Make it fun!
Catch her on the way out. Depending on the time, ask her out to lunch or dinner.proton said:too bad i never get the chance to talk to her! she always comes to class late! i admit last class, i missed an opportunity to talk to her as she sat near (but not directly next) to me.
but today, some guy had to take the middle seat, so she sat the far end and i at the other, so hard to get a chance to talk to her!
Astronuc said:Catch her on the way out. Depending on the time, ask her out to lunch or dinner.
proton said:i always have class afterwards. besides, too early for lunch - its in the morning
proton said:i always have class afterwards. besides, too early for lunch - its in the morning
Ask if she's not busy tomorrow night, or tomorrow morning, ask her if she has no plans for the evening, then the two of you could go out to dinner and/or movie, or do it on Saturday. Bottom line is, just ask her out.proton said:i always have class afterwards. besides, too early for lunch - its in the morning
Astronuc said:Ask if she's not busy tomorrow night, or tomorrow morning, ask her if she has no plans for the evening, then the two of you could go out to dinner and/or movie, or do it on Saturday. Bottom line is, just ask her out.
Cyrus said:If you talk to her before you get lunch with her a few times then its casual. Its no big deal.
Well, it's worked for me. Actually, in college, I had girls call me up out of the blue and ask me out.Cyrus said:Again, this is really blunt to say to someone you don't know. Its more likely to fail than to work. If he talks to her a few times casually, asks her to lunch, and then to a movie its not so bad.
I see this happening: "Hi, want to see a movie friday!?" "Whats that, you dont!?" "Bye?!"
If you talk to her before you get lunch with her a few times then its casual. Its no big deal.
If I walked up to you on the street and said "Hi, I saw you walking. Want to get lunch?" You would more likely than not tell me "Im busy, I am going to work, Get lost, F off buddy!" or the like. No one likes strange people doing these kinds of things, why would she? She hasnt even shown any signs of interest in him at this point.
proton said:i always have class afterwards. besides, too early for lunch - its in the morning
Cyrus said:If you talk to her before you get lunch with her a few times then its casual. Its no big deal.
billiards said:The danger with this approach is you get into the "we're just friends" territory. Although to be fair, from the sounds of things, this guy could do with being "just friends", especially with a girl, it might give him some insight into how a girl likes/expects to be treated.