Using a Taylor expansion up to and including first order to keep stuff linear I get
##\phi(t,x,y,z) \approx \phi^0 + (t-t_0)\phi^0_{,t} + (x-x_0)\phi^0_{,x} +(y-y_0)\phi^0_{,y} +(z-z_0)\phi^0_{,z}##.
Putting this into the metric I get
##ds^2 \approx (1+2\phi^0)dt^2 -...