In my view, it's a waste of time for anyone to try and persuade anyone else on this forum that "my definition of mass is right and yours is wrong". Both of the definitions I gave in
post #58[/color] are technically valid, and which one you use is a matter of choice, convention and fashion. People have entrenched views on this and, in my experience, are unlikely to change their mind. The important thing is to use clear unambiguous language so that when you post, others will understand which sort of mass you are talking about.
And the source of gravity is actually energy-momentum-stress rather than mass.
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And a further comment on post #67. Roughly speaking,
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invariant means a single measurement that all observers agree on;
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conserved means a value that does not change over time according to a single observer.
The invariant mass of a single object is invariant but need not be conserved. (Proper time and proper acceleration are other examples of invariant quantities.)
The total energy of a closed
(i.e. isolated from external forces) system is conserved but is not invariant. Therefore, in the absence of potential energy, the sum of its relativistic masses is also conserved but not invariant.
Ditto the total momentum of a closed system is conserved but is not invariant.
The term "invariant mass" is slightly preferable to "rest mass" only because it seems odd to talk of the rest mass of a photon that is never at rest. Nevertheless "rest mass" is a very common term. Actually I think "proper mass" is even better, but not many people use that term.