Blakesterc8 said:
so what I am getting is that there is no way of knowing where it all started,
You're still suggesting that it started at a point in space. It didn't. The problem isn't that we don't know which point that would be. The best theory we have about space and time (general relativity) tells us very clearly that there is no such point. It's conceivable that the answer would be different if we ever find a better theory than GR, but for now, GR will have to do.
Blakesterc8 said:
from inside of our universe. but in another dimension, is there an outside of it?
There are mathematical theorems that say that spacetime
can be thought of as embedded in a higher-dimensional space, but there's no
need to think of it that way. GR certainly doesn't describe it in those terms.
Blakesterc8 said:
so from another dimension is there a universe with a measurable center?
The answer would still be no. Imagine a 3D cartesian coordinate system (three perpendicular axes: x, y and z), with a grid of infinitely long lines in the x-y plane that divides the whole plane into 1 cm x 1 cm squares. Now imagine that the distance between the lines is growing with time. Let's say that the distance at time t>0 is R(t). Suppose also that this function is such that R(t)→0 when t→0+. (The + means that t goes to zero from the right). Note that I haven't defined a t=0 or t<0.
In this analogy, the big bang corresponds to the
limit t→0+. Note that the x-y plane is infinitely large at all times. Even when "viewed from a higher dimension", the limit t→0 doesn't assign any special meaning to any point in the x-y plane. The lines are approaching each other at
all points in the plane.
Each solution of Einstein's equation (the main equation of GR) describes a spacetime. The solutions describing homogeneous and isotropic universes fall into three classes. My analogy is an appropriate description of one of them. Marcus's analogy about the balloon is an appropriate description of one of the others. Note that in his analogy, the universe is the
surface of the sphere, not the volume inside it. The universe at time t is a sphere with radius R(t), and we have R(t)→0 when t→0+. Note that this limit doesn't assign any special meaning to any point on the surface, and that t=0 and t<0 are still undefined.
You may still be thinking "OK, so GR doesn't
describe t=0 or t<0, but something must have happened before that" but that view would be very naive. It would be saying that our intuitive ideas about space and time (which have been proven wrong by experiments and observations that favor GR over Newton's theory) are
better than the description provided by the most accurate (or second most accurate) theory in science.
So what you should try to understand is that the best theory of space, time and gravity only defines times t>0, and that the t→0+ limit of the relevant solutions doesn't assign any special meaning to any point in space.
By the way, I disagree with the claim that space was created at t=0. The theory doesn't mention t=0 at all, so claiming that to be the moment of creation is precisly the kind of error I was talking about. There
is no t=0 in the theory. The big bang is a
limit, not an event. And the big bang
theory is a sometimes funny TV show, or the claim that spacetime is represented by a homogeneous and isotropic solution of Einstein's equation.