If you can get training in a situation that trains and forces you to think in ways you are not accustomed to then do that, but also take an interest in some of the weird and bizarre things and things you would not even think about doing.
What you said makes a lot of sense. If you just sit around your house all day, I'd think your mind would become stagnant. Going out and doing things and staying active, I think, would make for a lively mind that constantly has ideas flowing through it. That's what I'm looking for.
Generally speaking people who are attracted to acting are rather frank attention whores ( I am, yes.) and chronic fantasizers: always mentally exploring being in situations they aren't actually in.
I'm not an attention whore by any means. What attracted me to acting was the art of it.
In other words, there's no where to get ideas about what to say in an improv except from taking the situation as real and reacting to it. I mean, if you're playing bank robbery everything you say has to be specific, not just to bank robberies, but to that bank robbery right then and there, and if you're the bank robber you have to take very seriously that you're about to force people to fork over money at gunpoint and that you might have to shoot someone to get compliance.
In this example, I think doing the improv would be different than if you were really in that situation. When you're doing the improv, you have to constantly throw out ideas to keep the scene moving. You can't just cower in fear because the scene stops flowing. And you can't just comply with every demand because then the scene is over in 2 seconds. Instead, you kinda have to constantly throw out different ideas to keep the scene going. You have to try different actions. If one doesn't work, you immediately move to the next. For example, "try to convince robber he's ruining his life", "try to convince robber there's no escape because the police are right outside", "try to convince robber to let you go" (which can have a sub category of different ways you can try to convince him, ie, flattery, seduction, intimidation, etc), "avoid giving the robber money hoping he'll give up and leave", "try to take the gun".
You may never try any of these things in a real robbery situation. So that's why I think you can't really treat it as a real situation, and do what you'd do in a real situation.
And I'm not shooting down your example or anything like that, I'm just using it to illustrate my problem. Sitting here in front of my computer, it's easy to come up with ideas to keep a scene going. I have time to think of them. But when I'm on stage and put on the spot, I'm no good at just coming up with one thing after another to keep the scene going.
I hope this makes sense. And I appreciate your input.
I always got plenty nervous at auditions and on opening nights. Never in improv because it's just "lets pretend" with loose parameters. I don't really know what to say because it's not a problem I had to cure in myself.
I'm the opposite. When I have to perform for the first time (never did an actual play, but have done scenes from plays in front of an audience), I couldn't be more relaxed. I've rehearsed extensively, I know exactly what I'm going to do, when I'm going to do it, how I'm going to do it, and I go out there and execute.
It's when things aren't planned, that's when I get nervous.
Do you know the subjects the conversations will be about? Generally I found when trying to do this it was my lack of knowledge about subjects that was the biggest thing holding my improv back. Say you know nothing about baseball but are asked to improv like your at a baseball game then what do you talk about that's actually related to baseball? I don't like this saying for science type things but in acting the saying goes fake it till you make it.
We get little note cards that tell us what we're going to do. We read them for a few seconds, think for a few seconds, and then off we go. I'm terrible at that.
One time I had to be in a band, and one of my bandmates wanted to change something, but I wanted to keep it the same, so we had to act that out.
Maybe the subject was too dull for me to do anything with, but I got nervous and really didn't know how to keep that scene going. I did my best, but it was pretty bad.