questionauthority said:
I've always wondered why gravity was described as "bending space". Why isn't gravity simply thought of as an attractive force?
The answer to this question is rather complicated. There are a number of books out on special relativity and general relativity for laymen; the best layman explanation I've read is in Kip Thorne's
Black Holes and Time Warps, which you can probably get at your local library. If you don't want to read the whole thing, just read the first two chapters. The first chapter explains special relativity and the second explains general relativity in simple terms. If you're interested in learning more about black holes, the rest of the book is rather fascinating as well.
To give you a general answer, in 1905, Einstein published the special theory of relativity, which explains how light can always move at the same speed for any inertial observer (see
this thread). An inertial observer is someone or something that keeps a constant velocity. However, Einstein's special theory of relativity only explained a universe in which gravity doesn't exist. Obviously there is gravity in our universe, so this troubled Einstein. Then, in 1907, Einstein realized that if you're falling toward the Earth, you won't feel your own weight. Also, the Earth doesn't "feel" its own weight as it goes around the sun, and the moon doesn't feel its weight as it moves around the Earth. This led Einstein to postulate that as you fall freely through a gravitational field, you can be thought of as an inertial observer moving through curved spacetime, and by 1915 he finally had a successful, self-consistent theory of gravity, which explains our world to great detail.
That doesn't mean gravity
can't be thought of as a normal-old attractive force (carried by particles), much like the other forces are (and there are, in fact, theories trying to find a way to do this, but so far with questionable success), but right now the best model we have, by far, is Einstein's general theory of relativity, and I personally hope that when it's all said and done gravity will always be best explained by curvatures in spacetime.
questionauthority said:
Does magnetism bend space?
Shortly after Einstein published his general theory of relativity, he received a paper from Theodor Kaluza who proposed that electromagnetism could also be thought of in terms of curvatures in spacetime, but in order to accomplish this Kaluza's theory required
five, not four, dimensions. Einstein swayed back and forth between being enthusiastic and being skeptical of Kaluza's idea, and although he finally approved of Kaluza's paper for publishing two years after receiving it, he eventually decided Kaluza's approach wasn't the correct one. However, in Brian Greene's
The Elegant Universe, he points out that one of the reasons Kaluza's theory had so many problems could have been because physicists weren't aware of the weak and strong nuclear forces at the time. I have asked in two of the subforums here (the Quantum Mechanics forum and the Strings and LQG forum) whether or not it could be possible to think of the other forces as curvatures in spacetime, but have not yet received much of a reply. Modern physicists think of electromagnetism, the strong force, and the weak force as forces being carried by particles (called quanta) rather than curvatures in spacetime.
edit: And they have been very successful in doing so.