kimbyd said:
When you're talking about systems that are so far separated from the quantum realm that it's effectively impossible to ever measure their quantum behavior, what is the point in asserting that something different is happening?
Because something different
does happen. You can quantum erase qubits. You can't quantum erase humans.
kimbyd said:
Quantum mechanics predicts Newtonian behavior in the macroscopic world we inhabit.
More precisely, QM
in a particular classical approximation that basically ignores all quantum effects predicts Newtonian behavior in the macroscopic world.
kimbyd said:
Just as General Relativity predicts Newtonian behavior for most Solar System observations.
Yes, but the approximation used here is very different from the QM one. GR predicts that the effects that depart from Newtonian behavior are too small to measure for most solar system observations. But GR is still a classical deterministic theory that predicts one result for all observations, just as Newtonian mechanics was.
The approximation that gets "Newtonian behavior" out of QM, however, has to ignore the fact that QM has a measurement problem. "Newtonian behavior" means a single deterministic trajectory. The unitary math of QM does not predict a single deterministic trajectory. It predicts a huge entangled mess of things that don't even amount to trajectories at all in ordinary 3-dimensional space: the only deterministic trajectory is in the configuration space of the system, which for a macroscopic object has something like ##10^{25}## degrees of freedom. You have to either assume that collapse occurs (Copenhagen) or assume that it makes sense to talk about a particular branch of a horribly messy entangled state as a "single trajectory" (MWI) to get Newtonian behavior.
The usual answer to the latter problem is decoherence--all the branches are decohered when we're talking about macroscopic objects, and a single trajectory is what is measured in each branch. I think this still sweeps a lot of issues under the rug, but in any case the point is that we don't need to go through any of this to get Newtonian behavior from GR.
In short, you're basically asking why you shouldn't consider QM to be a theory of everything (which is what you are doing when you ask what the point is in saying "something different is happening"). My answer is to ask why I
should consider QM to be a theory of everything when it has such obvious foundational issues and I have perfectly good classical theories for things that behave classically. The viewpoint that both our best current classical theory, GR, and QM are both approximations to some other more fundamental theory that we don't have yet seems to me to be much more reasonable than the viewpoint that, well, QM just has to be the theory of everything so why not make the best of it.