Am I Too Aggressive in Debates? A Personal Apology

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In summary, the speaker acknowledges their tendency to become relentless and attack others when arguing their point of view. This has caused them to have a negative impression of the people they disagree with, even though they actually like them. They decide to take a break and apologize to a few people, while others reassure them that it's okay and they understand. They suggest focusing on fact-based objective sciences instead of engaging in social or political discourse. Overall, the speaker learns to not get too emotionally attached to arguments and looks forward to future interactions.
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I can sometimes be relentless arguing my point of view, and attack others who disagree. Sometimes that leads to an impression I don't like the person I disagree with about something. And it is upsetting in the end for me after I've cooled down, because the disagreements are basically petty for the most part, and the people I've attacked are people I actually like. I'm going to take a break for a while. Just want to apologies to a few people, namely @DaveC426913, @russ_watters, @Vanadium 50, @vela, @artis, and there are probably others.
 
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No worries, Jarvis. Know how you feel. Water under the bridge.
 
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What your describing is more likely to happen with social/political discourse. So rather than throw the baby out with the bathwater, just keep the content you engage in purely in the fact based objective sciences. * From what I have read of your posts , you need not worry at all.
 
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It's all fine @Jarvis323 never even got angry at you. I think you were arguing with good intentions, just maybe too emotionally for an event that wasn't all that serious.
Hope to interact with you in the future.
 
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No worries. We all get too attached to our arguments sometimes.
 
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No worries. I never felt like you were attacking me. You have nothing to apologize for as far as I'm concerned.
 

1. What is considered "too aggressive" in a debate?

Aggressiveness in a debate can be subjective and vary depending on the context and individuals involved. Generally, it is considered too aggressive if one's tone or behavior becomes hostile, disrespectful, or intimidating towards the other person, making it difficult for them to express their opinions or feel heard.

2. How can I tell if I am being too aggressive in debates?

Self-reflection is key in determining if you are being too aggressive in debates. Consider if you are dominating the conversation, interrupting others, using personal attacks, or being overly emotional. It is also helpful to ask for feedback from others and be open to constructive criticism.

3. What are the potential consequences of being too aggressive in debates?

Being too aggressive in debates can lead to strained relationships, a negative reputation, and a lack of credibility. It can also hinder effective communication and prevent productive discussions from taking place.

4. How can I apologize for being too aggressive in a debate?

An effective apology for being too aggressive in a debate should involve taking responsibility for your actions, acknowledging the impact of your behavior on others, and expressing genuine remorse. It is also important to make a commitment to change and actively work towards improving your communication style in the future.

5. How can I improve my debate skills to avoid being too aggressive?

Improving your debate skills involves actively listening to others, staying calm and respectful, and focusing on the issues rather than attacking the person. It is also helpful to do research and gather evidence to support your arguments, as well as being open to considering different perspectives and finding common ground with others.

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