The discussion centers on the nature of black holes and the complexities of measuring time and existence in relation to them. It highlights that while an infalling object measures finite time before reaching an event horizon, light emitted from it takes an infinite time to reach an outside observer, complicating the understanding of black holes. Participants debate the implications of general relativity (GR) and quantum mechanics (QM) on the concept of existence, particularly in curved spacetime. They explore the idea that black holes may not exist in a conventional sense, as no 'now' surface intersects their interiors, yet acknowledge that they can be approached through spacelike trajectories. Ultimately, the conversation reveals the intricate relationship between time, observation, and the theoretical nature of black holes.