Thanks for your response jim! Really appreciate it.
Yes I am a programmer actually and that analogy made sense! I haven't read textbooks and extensive literature on this so I hope to get at least some good references to articles here that answer some of these questions and that article was great, thanks!
As for the topic, I guess I do need to specify the question a bit more and in the process even fully grasp what it is that I was asking.
One thing that I am not asking is whether we can predict in advance which exact area of the brain will do a specific function.
What I am asking is whether there are specific neurons that will be "differentiated" at some point to do specific functions. And I do recognize that we are not talking only about the limbic system, I should have been more careful with that. So the idea is not the exact placement, but a specific functionality that once it is set, it doesn't really move, as neurons retain their function with long term memory (as I understand it through Lakoff's work)
Sounds like that with japanese and english brains, the neural circuitry, even though completely different, between japanese and english, they were somewhat similar in each of the respective groups, showing that language itself was playing a part in shaping up the circuits?
If I were to think of an analogy, perhaps this would illustrate my question more precisely. If Japanese and English were designing a sailing ship, the ship would have its basic functionalities, but the ropes and sails would be somewhat different. Just like a ship needs a sail, so does the brain need its limbic area to do certain functions. After all, the main emotional processing gets done in the limbic and above mentioned areas of the brain, which are in a very specific area of each brain, not somewhere totally random.
Furthermore, the ropes that bind the sails will never fall on the same spot or might not be the same thickness, make, etc. But they serve the same functionality. Some boats might be missing a sail or a rope, and some might have some ropes doubled at random places for support, but the overall connectivity is set in place once the sail and the actual rope is made. At least until it breaks down and is replaced by another set of ropes and sails (or not...)
So, that is basically what I meant by a "sad" neuron, and an "angry" neuron, just like you would have two different ropes holding two different, yet specific sails, holding specific placement in the ship.
And then there is the follow-up question still, which is whether emotions run one at a time or whether there could me multiple ones firing at the same time. Sort of putting on one spinnaker, rather than two, because the boat doesn't handle two spinnakers at the same time.
Thanks again, I very much appreciate all your input!