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I'm in my fourth and final year of grad school in applied mathematics and software engineering. I have met and worked with many people, so here are my observations for my particular societal group of a few dozen people in science. I make no claim that these things are true in general, but they do seem to be true for the people I know:
- Obviously, I have never noticed any difference between my colleagues' intelligence which in any way correlates to their gender.
- People of different genders do tend to think in different ways, partly due to how our brains are wired, but mostly due to societal/cultural influence throughout our lives.
- For instance, many of my female colleagues can perform repetitive tasks with the patience and sheer perseverance of a Buddhist monk. For me this makes sense as millennia of evolution must have gifted women with stronger patience, otherwise half of our children in prehistoric times would never have made it past the first week.
- Many of my male colleagues are incredibly lazy when it comes to this stuff, so they try to write tools that do things automatically.
- Many of my female colleagues then actually get the false impression themselves that the males are smarter because they know how to write tools, assuming that they do it because they're just so smart that it's easy for them. This couldn't be more wrong; they bother to make the time to learn/write the tools because on average they tend to be more lazy than the females. Obviously, any female could do it if they chose to (and some of course do), but most don't because they feel that the alternative is viable for them because they have the patience for it (whereas men generally don't).
Thought patterns like these can lead to a surprising amount of discrimination in any context, but especially in science, and the worst is when women become convinced that they are inferior. Convincing others about something is significantly easier than convincing yourself, so you should never believe that this is the case.
So, next time you compare yourself to your friends and you think that the males are somehow smarter, just remember that we might all be equal, but we do tend to think differently, both for biological and cultural reasons. This in no way means that any way is better than the other, but, depending on the context, it can create the illusion that someone is smarter. For what it's worth I have a very high IQ, and I know many girls who definitely have much more brainpower than I do ;)
- Obviously, I have never noticed any difference between my colleagues' intelligence which in any way correlates to their gender.
- People of different genders do tend to think in different ways, partly due to how our brains are wired, but mostly due to societal/cultural influence throughout our lives.
- For instance, many of my female colleagues can perform repetitive tasks with the patience and sheer perseverance of a Buddhist monk. For me this makes sense as millennia of evolution must have gifted women with stronger patience, otherwise half of our children in prehistoric times would never have made it past the first week.
- Many of my male colleagues are incredibly lazy when it comes to this stuff, so they try to write tools that do things automatically.
- Many of my female colleagues then actually get the false impression themselves that the males are smarter because they know how to write tools, assuming that they do it because they're just so smart that it's easy for them. This couldn't be more wrong; they bother to make the time to learn/write the tools because on average they tend to be more lazy than the females. Obviously, any female could do it if they chose to (and some of course do), but most don't because they feel that the alternative is viable for them because they have the patience for it (whereas men generally don't).
Thought patterns like these can lead to a surprising amount of discrimination in any context, but especially in science, and the worst is when women become convinced that they are inferior. Convincing others about something is significantly easier than convincing yourself, so you should never believe that this is the case.
So, next time you compare yourself to your friends and you think that the males are somehow smarter, just remember that we might all be equal, but we do tend to think differently, both for biological and cultural reasons. This in no way means that any way is better than the other, but, depending on the context, it can create the illusion that someone is smarter. For what it's worth I have a very high IQ, and I know many girls who definitely have much more brainpower than I do ;)