This is all a bit jumbled to properly understand. '
In the same way a 2 dimensional being cannot fully grasp a third dimension world, we are trying to grasp higher dimensions in our space.
Here's a concept that helps me to understand this better.
Imagine a bow and arrow, laying flat on the ground. Cross the arrow so that it's perpendicular to the string, and also crossing the bow. In tracing the distance between the ends of the string, it's length, is X-meters. In tracing the distance from end to end, but following the path of the bow, the distance is X-meters PLUS. IOW, the path of the bow is longer than the path of the string.
Now, move the perpendicular bow from the bottom, at one end, and go all the way to the top. Both cross points of the bow start at the same time, regardless of the path of the string or the bow, and end at the same time.
Imagine the same thing, with the Earth here, and a star X-meters away, we see the straight line of sight light coming from that star. Now, put the sun in the way of this line of sight. The light that comes from the star traveling at an off-angle direction, will travel toward the edge of the sun, and "bend" around a bit, and then hit our point, the earth. This off-angle light has traveled X-meters PLUS.
Just as the arrow on the bow traveled at a constant speed, the two lines of light, straight and off-angle, will both reach the Earth together, appearing to travel at the same speed (from the Earth's observations point of view).
Clearly, the distance of the off-angle is longer. To my understanding, in order for constant speed of light to travel farther, yet appear to arrive at the same elapsed time, the time of the off-angle light will have to slow down. The sun's gravity distorted the space/time around it.
Light is like the arrow. Just as our 3D observations of our 2D bow and arrow ,all exist in the same passage of time, we see light as constant, perhaps being but a component of a larger, and higher, dimensional force of components.
I dunno. I still have to pay rent this Friday.