Is this all just speculation and wishful thinking, or is there any widely accepted (or at least regarded) evidence for the scenarios you propose?
If DM doesn't repel from ordinary matter, and is attracted by it - shouldn't we observe objects that cause considerably more gravitational effect than it should (based on it's size and composition)?
If DM doesn't interact with itself, it also should orbit/oscillate around/through large objects, which should be detectable as well. Also, DM would be attracted by "normal" black holes, and shouldn't be allowed to exit anymore, effectively feeding the BH. Is there any BH that indicates that it is much too heavy for what it consumed, making a contribution from DM necessary?
I too could think of a lot of scenarios and possibilities. What bothers me is, which are in line with observations, likely/possible in some of the grander theories or even some definite word on this.
Let me rephrase: Is there anything (any behavior) that we know about DM that goes beyond "it makes gravity"? How does it move, how is it distributed? Is there some basic principle to where lots of DM are? How does it, if at all, interact with its own kind?
Or are these actually THE current questions astrophysics craves to find an answer to, too, but without anything concrete to say about so far?