Herbascious J said:
I'm assuming this velocity is a form of energy and would contribute to the mass of each object as measured by me.
It's not that simple. See below.
Herbascious J said:
in GR energy is the source of gravity, not just the rest-mass, is this correct?
No. The stress-energy tensor is the source of gravity. Kinetic energy does appear in the stress-energy tensor, but it's a tensor, not a scalar, so it's not just a matter of it kinetic energy "adding" to rest mass.
Also, your post asked about black holes, which are vacuum--there is no stress-energy anywhere. So their "mass" is just a property of the spacetime geometry. So even trying to think of them as having "kinetic energy" is problematic, since they're not made of matter to begin with. I would personally advise you to change your scenario to use ordinary massive objects that fall together and collide inelastically, ending up as one larger object at rest in the center of mass frame, since that will eliminate the whole "black hole is vacuum" issue.
Herbascious J said:
Two objects at rest would have a lower gravitational field than those same two objects about to collide at high velocity?
You're leaving things out of the comparison.
Suppose we have four objects, A, B, C, and D. All of them have the same rest mass. A and B are separated by a distance L and, at some instant, are at rest relative to each other. C and D, at the same instant, are separated by the same distance L and are moving towards each other at high speed. All of these statements are relative to the same frame of reference.
In the above scenario, if we consider A + B as an isolated system, it will have a smaller mass than C + D considered as an isolated system. It is tempting to say that the kinetic energy of the C + D system will make an additional contribution to its overall mass, but we should resist the temptation for reasons that will appear below. (Btw, we're assuming we can measure all these masses of isolated systems, but we haven't talked about how we would do that. You might want to think about that aspect as well.)
However, now suppose we decide we want to make A + B move towards each other at the same high speed as C + D. To do that, we would have to apply a huge impulse to A and B, and that would take energy, and that energy has mass. So the additional mass doesn't appear out of nowhere; we added it to the system.
Now suppose further that C + D got that way by starting out much, much farther apart, and at rest relative to each other, and then fell towards each other under their mutual gravity. Then ask: what was the mass of the C + D system far in the past when C + D were at rest relative to each other? Was it the same as the A + B system then? The answer is no. Per my post #4, if the C + D system is an isolated system, its overall mass is constant. So its mass far in the past when C + D were at rest relative to each other is the same as the mass it has at the instant described above, when C + D and A + B were both at the same separation L.
We can check our logic by asking what we would have to do to the A + B system to make it like the C + D system was in the far past when C + D were at rest relative to each other, as A + B are at the instant described above. The answer, again, is that we would have to add energy to the A + B system, enough to push them apart, against their mutual gravity, to the same separation that C + D had far in the past when they were at rest relative to each other. And this would give the A + B system the same overall mass as the C + D system. And, again, this additional mass woudn't come out of nowhere; we would add it to the system.
Pushing A + B apart against their mutual gravity is often described as adding "potential energy" to the system, and as an ordinary language heuristic description, this is fine. But since the spacetime is not stationary, there is no precise mathematical object that corresponds to this "potential energy", at least not an invariant one. That means there is no invariant way to characterize the contribution of "kinetic energy" to the overall mass either, because doing that would require separating "kinetic energy" and "potential energy" and trading off one against the other, and we can only do that in an invariant way in a stationary spacetime. The only invariant concept in our example is just "adding energy", or equivalently "adding mass". As the two examples of what we could do to make the A + B system match the C + D system illustrate, there are different ways to add mass, but they all end up adding the same mass.