It's not possible. If you're talking about the static GMm/r^2 force, one can't view that force as being carried by virtual particles at all. Any virtual particles carrying momentum (hence energy) must take it away from the static body, draining energy away somehow. That doesn't happen. This is true in GR as well, so long as the situation is static.
If the situation is not static, ie gravity waves, momentum (hence energy) is carried away from the body. Particles radiated from the body must hence carry momentum in the direction of motion. The only way to get around this would be to have particles come in from infinity carrying momentum in the opposite direction of their motion, which would be the ultimate example of non-locality.