Those happen automatically if you haven't posted in a while, which it appears you hadn't until this thread, looking at your profile page.
I'm sorry you feel that way; that was not the intent.
Can you give a link to the thread where you did this? It would help a lot in understanding where you're coming from. I have never watched Smolin's video; and even if I had, I wouldn't know which particular things in it gave you the ideas you have. We don't ask for specific references here just for kicks; we do it because without them we don't know what background knowledge and context you have for the question you are asking, and without that we can't give you a good answer.