But the point of the space-time diagram is that both events, R1 and R2, exist and are real, and the Red guy exists and is real at both R1 and R2 events. That is, when the brown guy and the blue guy meet, R1 exists in Blue's instaneous 3-D world while R2 exists in Brown's instantaneous simultaneous world.
Don't overcomplicate the problem by asking what you mean by real. I think we all know what we are talking about. We simply use a protype example of real. When Blue and Brown meet, Brown observes that Blue is a real observer and Blue observes that Brown is a real observer. If you and I are standing in a room talking, I identify you as a real body and you identify me as a real body--that's our prototype example of real--unless you are a Solipsist--but Einstein was quite emphatic about prohibiting solipsism in relativity).
Now, it is not a question of whether Brown or Blue correctly identifies the Red observer as being real. Both Brown and Blue are correct in observing that a real Red body exists in their respective 3-D worlds at the event of Brown's and Blue's world lines intersecting (Brown and Blue meet).
That's the whole point of the block concept: the Red body must be a 4-dimensional body for both Brown and Blue to each have Red existing as a 3-D body in their respective instantaneous 3-D worlds. Brown and Blue each observe a different 3-D cross-section of Red's 4-dimensional body.
Again, by extension, we could keep adding more and more observers with different Lorentz boosts until the original Red world line is seen to be a continuous 4-dimensional body, i.e., a real physical body extending continuously along Red's world line. We could then develop the concept for every other observer and every other object in the universe until we recognize the entire universe is 4-dimensional populated by 4-dimensional objects. That's the block universe concept.