Edward Wij said:
Photons are the quanta of electromagnetic wave
virtual photons are quanta of the electromagnetic force (electric field)
This is not really what "virtual" means in reference to virtual particles in quantum field theory. But it will do as a very rough approximation for this discussion.
Edward Wij said:
So
Gravitons are the quanta of gravitational wave
virtual gravitons are the quanta of the gravitational force (gravity field)
"Interaction" is a better word than "force", because gravity is not a "force" in GR, and the reason for that (that objects moving solely under gravity feel zero acceleration, unlike objects moving under other interactions like EM) does not change if GR is an effective classical field theory on top of an underlying quantum field theory.
Edward Wij said:
In pure quantum gravity where spin-2 particles rule. You have virtual gravitons carrying the gravity force.
Ok (with the caveats and qualifications above).
Edward Wij said:
It is not a curvature of spacetime
Incorrect. Again, the classical limit of this theory is still GR, and in GR, gravity is still spacetime curvature. (More precisely,
tidal gravity is spacetime curvature.) So at the classical level, the result of all those virtual gravitons is still spacetime curvature.
Edward Wij said:
In pure quantum gravity. There are only virtual gravitons.
Incorrect. There's nothing preventing real gravitons from existing in a quantum field theory of gravity, any more than the quantum field theory of electromagnetism prevents real photons (and hence electromagnetic waves) from existing. Remember that, if there is a correct underlying theory of quantum gravity, it has to account for
all the phenomena that our current classical theory (GR) accounts for, just as the correct quantum theory of EM has to account for all the phenomena that the classical theory of EM (Maxwell's Equations) accounts for. So classical EM fields and EM waves still exist in quantum electrodynamics, and spacetime curvature and gravitational waves still exist in quantum gravity.
Edward Wij said:
Unless you are saying these virtual gravitons are spacetime itself
That's one way of looking at it, yes. Se above.
Edward Wij said:
and hence can produce gravitational wave (produce gravitons)?
Just spacetime by itself doesn't "produce" gravitational waves. There has to be a source (matter or energy wiggling around) somewhere. But given a source, spacetime by itself can
propagate gravitational waves (fluctuations in spacetime curvature), and at the quantum level, this is modeled as gravitons (real ones) propagating.