I think your answers are pretty good except for your answer to "Why aren't you teaching?". I think you should think on that one if plan to apply to an engineering job. What you described as issues you have with teaching are essential aspects of the day-to-day life of a practicing engineer.
Often you have to work with people who are too busy to talk to you. These people could be other engineers, techs, or customers. Everyone is pulled in their own directions and you will have to learn to negotiate with them. How do you convince someone who you don't have any actual power over to do a task that you require in order for you to do your work? This is a hard and stressful problem. Also, you'll be preparing for meetings all the time and at a design review everyone will be counting on you.
And believe me, every engineer on this board will agree with me when I say that engineering is the type of job that follows you home. I have a project due in Sept. and it is already keeping me up some nights wondering how will I ever get it done in time. If you say: "I'd rather have a job where I'm mostly free to do what I want when I get home." most hiring managers will think you aren't engineering material. Every engineer ever feels they are never really done preparing a design or a change order or report whatever.
Some of the things that you don't like about teaching are just aspects of being a professional. That is one of the things that differentiates a professional career. You have to take ownership of your own projects and become self-directed. That means taking your work home with you and doing whatever it takes on occasion to complete your project.
Hmm. Well, part of me is asking if I really want to be an engineer, then, part of me is thinking, maybe I can't get away from it, no matter what job I get, but part of me is thinking that there's something about teaching that is different in a crucial way. It's hard to pin it down. I think nothing puts you in the spotlight like like teaching. It's not so much fear of public speaking, which I got over. It just has this quality of feeling like there's a gun to my head, which nothing else I've ever done has. My thesis wasn't quite like it, even though the thesis followed me home. The best way to describe my thesis is that it was like having to carry a very heavy weight around wherever I went. But it wasn't the gun-to-my-head feeling that teaching gives me. I could have said that the students gave me poor evaluations and complained about me, but I thought it was better not to reveal that. I could add that the last time I taught, my evaluations were okay.
I think what it is is that with teaching, it's like constantly giving me an extremely unreasonable deadline for a project. Each class feels like a project that, in a reasonable world, I would have 3 weeks to do. I think that might capture what I don't like about it. You just can't expect quality if you make someone teach 3-5 times a week, at least not from me, and it just bothers me that I can't really think things through and do some research on how people respond to each topic, how do the best teachers do it, etc. With years of experience, in the current system, you can keep doing that sort of thing, getting notes from previous years and improving it each time, but it makes for a rough experience for beginners, I think. If it sounds like I'm being a perfectionist about it, it's because I'm terrified of the students judging me and complaining to the department because they really gave me hell, the first few times I taught, and I think I'm scarred for life, after that. There's nothing that scares me like teaching.
Plus, I don't really believe in lecturing predominantly, but I didn't have that much choice, as a grad student. I just thought I shouldn't get all experimental, as a beginning teacher. I experimented with some non-lecturing stuff, but I figured I shouldn't get too fancy with it, with a certain amount of material to cover and not knowing how the students would react, and so on. And I suppose, to be fair to today's lectures, I could say that the students are supposed to do most of the work outside the lecture, so in a way, our educational system isn't actually predominantly lecture-based, anyway (still, the fact is, most people don't have the kind of attention span to get much out of straight lecturing, least of all those college algebra kids).
I don't mind the job following me home to an extent, which is why I said, I'd like to MOSTLY be free to do what I want. I just want some flexibility, rather than something that's a constant nagging thing that's stressing me out for every waking moment. From what I've heard, I think I can get that as an actuary. My understanding is that I would have to work harder during busy seasons and that sort of thing. And then the exam studying, which is a big deal. But that's not a problem, I think. The reason why is that I can slack off on my studying Monday, but that's okay if I make up for it on Tuesday. As long as I'm ready for the exam when it comes. That's another key thing about teaching. You can't miss a beat. The next class is always there.
Whatever job I get, I'll step up to the plate, and do my best at it. If my work follows me home, it follows me home. Can't win 'em all.
It will be better than teaching, though--no doubt about that.