WannabeNewton said:
If you are interested in the down to Earth physics of GR, however; then I would say books like Wald and Hawking & Ellis will not be the optimal ones to use by any means. Carroll would be good and there is also the classic MTW, which you've probably heard of. You might also try Schutz "A First Course in General Relativity" which is light on math but very good in terms of the physics. A very recently published book that George Jones recommended to me, and which I recently received in the mail, is Padmanabhan "Gravitation". It is both heavy on math (though not as much as Wald) as well as the actual physics of GR. From what I've seen while skimming, it looks to be quite good (and has tons of exercises).
Perhaps I'm wrong, but from a close look at the chapter on special relativity it seems to be very good conceptional wise but on the other hand quite useless, particularly for the beginner, because it's full of typos. E.g., at one place he writes
\partial_{\mu} J^{\mu} = \partial_t J^0 -\vec{\nabla} \cdot \vec{J} \quad \text{(WRONG!)}
although of course it must read
\partial_{\mu} J^{\mu} = \partial_t J^0 + \vec{\nabla} \cdot \vec{J}.
He seems to have overlooked that
\partial_{\mu} = \frac{\partial}{\partial x^{\mu}},
i.e., there is no sign in the covariant four-divergence. This mistake I've often seen students making when introduced to the four-dimensional vector/tensor calculus. So it would be good if such trivial wouldn't appear in textbooks.
At another place he has a factor of two wrong in the definition of the orbital-angular momentum operator which is \hat{\vec{L}}=-\mathrm{i} \vec{x} \times \vec{\nabla} and not twice this operator.
Another great sin is to write \Lambda^{\mu}_{\nu} instead of {\Lambda^{\mu}}_{\nu} for Lorentz-transformation matrices, which can become awkward, when one raises and lowers indices of such matrices (as usual with the Minkwoski metric \eta_{\mu \nu}).
These are only little things, but can be very confusing, particularly for beginners. It's a pity, because I think it's a pretty good didactical work in principle.