I have use the above simple language for comprehension of fundamentals, do not understimate the complexity of gravity and the physics of particles.
Einstien's tensor states that (G=kT) "curviture of spacetime is proportional to electromagentic energy content." Generally, curviture itself is synonymous with an acceleration, or a change in energy, or a force. In some sense, the above equation is just a relativistic equavelnt of our everyday understanding. The contraction of space is never noticed by an observer, taking the solar system for example, we would not see the space a curved when we map it generically, but in terms of energy it is distorted like light refracting into a glass block. For an analogy, we might say that space too has a density in spacetime, just like optical refraction through a glass block. (Spacetime contraction is homologus to electromagnetic distortion.)
These gravitons which theoretically mediate the field, change the way that light and massive structures constructed of electromagnetic-energy move through it. (See rest mass, Lorentz Transform, Geodesics, Redshift)
Although gravity accounts for no "energy" on the eletromagentic charts, it counterintuitively affects paths of objects. But there is a spontanous exchange occurring between velocity and restmass. Gravitational 'energy' or field, which interacts with electromagentics, radiates out from a massive source, filling space. This interaction is supposed to be mediated by a particle called a gravition, which has not yet been detected.
A graviton simply unlocks relativistic rest mass, and opens it up into motion. Therefore a graviton facilitates a change in curviture,as the enstien equations say gravity does, thus causing an 'expanding' of energy within a mass into motion as it does. Per geneneral relativity these facts are undeniably true. How to detect the particle, and how it is generated is truly in question. We certianly know that a graviton is generated by only mass, where energy is pent up tightly. We also know that the more the energy is pent up, the more gravity is produced. When mass is released, light or heat is produced, and gravity reduces.
In short it is not how gravity works that is in question, it is in the details of why.