dsaun777 said:
I have BS in mathematics and I am studying relativity independently from Wisner and Thorne's massive book Gravitation. I took up to Special relativity at university So GR is pushing my comfort level of physics and mathematics, which is always a good thing!
So I could actually go out and with high precision instruments, say a gyroscopic light measuring device, and measure "points" in a given spacetime and construct a suitable metric?
For a spatial metric, all you need to be able to do to construct a metric is to be able to measure the distance between any two nearby points, with some sort of mechanism that I'll call "a ruler". You don't need a gyroscope, as we are not yet dealing with time - you just some way of measuring distances. You need to have an appropriate set of labels for these points, and they have to be "smooth". With a BS in math, you may (or may not?) appreciate that you can define a 1:1 invertible mapping between points on a line and points on a plane. This sort of labelling is not "smooth" in the needed sense, you can't construct a metric if you use this sort of non-smooth labelling of points. Point set topology introduces the necessary ideas to understand "smoothness". (This is different from other sorts of topics that are still called topology).
But that's more abstract than you really need to get, though if your focus is on the math and not the physics, you might find it interesting. MTW (the book you are studying) won't cover this sort of math, though, it's a physics textbook and not a math textbook. Walds text, "General Relativity", touches a bit on the math, but it is not as interesting a read as MTW.
Once you have an appropriate smooth labelling of your set of points on the geometric surface you are studying, you can construct the metric as long as you have some way of measuring the distances between nearby points.
The space-time metric is slightly more abstract. Rather than measuring the distances between points, you measure the Lorentz intervals between events. And events are just things that happen in a specific place at a specific time, since we are studying space-time. The coordinate labels we assign to events in space-time are similar to the labels we use to describe spatial geometry, but they include an additional label for "time". The time label is arbitrary, just as the spatial labels are - the tensor approach allows this sort of arbitrary labelling.
Hopefully the Lorentz interval is familiar to you from your study of special relativity. If your treatment of SR didn't stress the Lorentz interval (many don't), you might try "Space-time Physics" by Taylor and Wheeler, in addition to MTW.
You still don't need a gyroscope to find the space-time metric. With the introduction of time, one introduces the possibility of rotation. It turns out one can duplicate the functions of a gyroscope by measure the Lorentz interval between all points. Getting into the details would take us off-topic, but I will say that one can construct a mathematical model of a ring laser gyroscope, and this is my justification for saying that one doesn't need to postulate the existence of gyroscopes, one simply needs to postulate the existence of the Lorentz interval as a quantity that is independent of the observer and represents the physics one is studying.
The space-time metric of flat, empty space is the Minkowskii metric, usually written as
$$ds^2 = -dt^2 + dx^2 + dy^2 + dz^2$$
You can see that there is a minus sign in front of the "time" term. This makes the metric not positive definite - it's called a Lorentzian metric.
Light beams in a vacuum are a convenient physical representation of a curve with a zero-length Lorentz interval.
It may take some thought to figure out how one can use knowledge of the Lorentz interval to measure other things. It turns out that the key instrument for measuring Lorentz intervals is the clock, which measures something called proper time, which is the timelike interval along the worldline of the clock. This is a different sort of time than the coordinate label that we assigned to time earlier was that was arbitrary. The proper time is something that can be measured with a clock (often called wristwatch time), and it's not a matter of convention, it's a physical quantity that can be measured.
Having a clock and using the property that light in a vacuum travels a path of zero Lorentz interval, it's possible to measure various observer-dependent notion of "length" or "spatial distance" between points. It's an observer dependent notion, because of so-called "Lorentz contraction", so we expect different observers to have different notions of "spatial distance".