While I agree that do Carmo's book is the standard in graduate level differential geometry, reading this book will not prepare you for what the professor is asking you to make sure you know (I actually read the link you posted).
He is asking you to be knowledgeable with calculus on manifolds, which is what volume 1 of Spivak's
Comprehensive Introduction book is about (I read its table of contents). I would not mess with this book any longer. I have the following two suggestions:
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0387480986/?tag=pfamazon01-20 by Loring Tu
My opinion is to pick this book up immediately and starting working through it. It covers the same material as Spivak's comprehensive volume 1 and Lee's book, but is much more concise and clear. Its excersises are also helpful, especially since there are selected solutions in the back. I wish we would have used this book for the class I took for calculus on manifolds, and it is now a great read and reference for my qualifying exam preparation. It was published in 2008, so the notation is modern (notation is a big mess with this subject, especially with the older books).
https://www.amazon.com/dp/0387954481/?tag=pfamazon01-20 by John M. Lee
This is a book your professor lists and it and Loring Tu's book cover basically the same material with similar notation. This is also the book that I just used in a semester long class and it was a good book. It is much longer than Tu's book though and tends to get bogged down at times, which won't be great for summer reading. I think Tu's book will get you going much quicker. It seems Lee also assumes you are more comortable with topology than Tu, especially since Lee assumes you have read his previous book on topology. :)
In short, get Loring Tu's book and use Lee's and Spivak's books as backup since your professor listed those (most likely he hasn't heard of Tu's book which is why he didn't list it. You could e-mail him just to make sure, but it definitely covers the same material). It is shorter than both Spivak and Lee, has more doable exercises (which are labeled by what topic they fall under), and it is more modern than Spivak (Lee is a modern book as well). I think Tu's book gets you going much faster than Lee, which is good given your summer time constraints. By the way, Loring Tu is the same author that helped write
Differential Forms in Algebraic Topology that your professor lists on the site as well. The Warner book he also lists is old like Spivak's, and I've heard that its notation is terrible.
Do not follow the recommendations to read do Carmo for this course, as this isn't the material he is asking you to know. Are you transferring to UT's graduate program (I just guessed given that this seems like an upper level topics course)? Either way congratulations on acceptance. What topology or differential geometry have you had before?