Seminole Boy said:
Angular momentum seems to suggest there is some absolute type of motion, i.e. rotation of planets, whereas Einstein talks about the general relativity of all forms of motion.
Angular momentum *is* relative; you have to pick a "center" about which to measure it, and different choices of "center" will give different values for angular momentum. The same goes for "rotation".
What is *not* relative is the proper acceleration of a particular observer following a particular worldline. For example, imagine two space stations far out in deep space. Astronauts at rest relative to the first station are weightless, and measure zero proper acceleration on themselves. Astronauts at rest relative to the second station feel weight: they can stand up within the station just as they could on the surface of the Earth, and they measure a nonzero proper acceleration on themselves.
The usual way of describing the difference between these two stations is to say that the second station is "rotating", while the first is not. But really it's the observable difference between the two that's primary; attributing it to "rotation" is the result of trying to construct a consistent theory of physics that predicts the observable difference correctly.
Seminole Boy said:
If all forms of motion are relative, how do we know we're really rotating around the sun
This brings up another point of possible confusion. Consider the two space stations above again, and suppose that in the first station, astronauts looking out a particular window always see the same patch of stars apparently motionless in the sky, while astronauts looking out a particular window of the second station see the starfield continually changing, as stars move across the field of view.
It's tempting to say that these observations confirm that it's the second station that is "rotating" in some absolute sense. But the only thing the observations really say, definitely, is that the second station is rotating relative to the stars, while the first is not. Again, calling the rotation of the second station "absolute" is the result of constructing a physical theory, it's not something that's given directly by observation, the way the observed proper acceleration is.
In the same way, we say the Earth revolves around the Sun, but really what we directly observe is that the Sun moves against the background of distant stars with a period of a year. We have to use some physical theory to attribute that observation to the Earth revolving around the Sun.
One other note: strictly speaking, in GR it would indeed be perfectly possible to describe the entire solar system using a frame of reference in which the Earth, not the Sun, was at rest. However, everything will look much more complicated in such a frame than it does in a frame in which the Sun is at rest. GR says you can use any coordinates you like, but it doesn't say that all coordinates will make things look equally simple.