Cool Problem!(Drunk)
I will solve this using differentiation under the integral sign.
The integral can be written in another form
$$ \int_0^\infty \frac{\tanh(x)}{x e^x}dx = \int_0^1 \frac{t^2-1}{(t^2+1)\ln t}dt$$
Let us define
$$ I(\alpha) = \int_0^1 \frac{t^\alpha-1}{(t^2+1)\ln t}dt$$
$$\begin{aligned} I'(\alpha) &= \int_0^1 \frac{t^\alpha}{t^2+1}dt \\ &= \int_0^1 t^\alpha \sum_{k=0}^{\infty}(-1)^k t^{2k} \ dt \\ &= \sum_{k=0}^\infty (-1)^k \int_0^1 t^{\alpha + 2k}\ dt \\ &= \sum_{k=0}^\infty \frac{(-1)^k}{\alpha +2k+1} \\ &= \frac{1}{\alpha+1}\sum_{k=0}^\infty \frac{(-1)^k}{1+\left( \dfrac{2}{\alpha + 1}\right)k} \\ &= \frac{1}{4}\left\{ \psi \left( \frac{3+\alpha}{4} \right)-\psi \left( \frac{1+\alpha}{4} \right) \right\}\end{aligned}$$
\(\psi (*)\) is the
Digamma Function.
$$\begin{aligned} I(\alpha) &= \frac{1}{4}\int \left\{ \psi \left( \frac{3+\alpha}{4} \right)-\psi \left( \frac{1+\alpha}{4} \right) \right\} d\alpha \\ &= \left(\ln \left( \Gamma \left( \frac{3+\alpha}{4}\right)\right)- \ln \left( \Gamma \left( \frac{1+\alpha}{4}\right)\right)\right)+C \end{aligned}$$
By letting \(\alpha = 0\), we obtain
$$ C= \ln \left( \frac{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{1}{4}\right)}{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{3}{4}\right)}\right)$$
Therefore
$$ \begin{aligned} I(\alpha)&= \ln \left( \frac{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{3+\alpha}{4}\right)}{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{1+\alpha}{4}\right)}\right)+\ln \left( \frac{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{1}{4}\right)}{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{3}{4}\right)}\right) \\ &= \ln \left( \frac{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{3+\alpha}{4}\right) \Gamma \left( \dfrac{1}{4}\right)}{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{1+\alpha}{4}\right) \Gamma \left( \dfrac{3}{4}\right)}\right)\end{aligned} $$
Our integral is a special case when \(\alpha = 2\), therefore
$$ I(2) = \int_0^1 \frac{t^2-1}{(t^2+1)\ln t}dt = $$
$$\ln \left( \frac{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{5}{4}\right) \Gamma \left( \dfrac{1}{4}\right)}{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{3}{4}\right)^2} \right) = {2\ln \left( \frac{2\Gamma \left(\dfrac{5}{4} \right)}{\Gamma \left( \dfrac{3}{4}\right)}\right)}$$