RohitRmB said:
i don't get the conservation of angular momentum stuff
That's unfortunate, as it's a much easier way to understand orbital motion.
For a single object, it's fairly easy to see the kinematics of it. Suppose, I have a star, and I place a comet very, very far away from it. Now, rather than placing it completely still, I give it just the tiniest nudge in perpendicular direction.
Now the comet begins to fall onto the star. Yes, right now it only picks up radial velocity, but it also drifts a little in perpendicular direction due to the initial nudge. It drifts slowly, but it has time, because it started out rather far away, so the fall is going to take a long time.
Eventually, it reaches the star. But it doesn't fall on it, because it has drifted far enough out to miss it. Now, it's moving rather rapidly, and needs to fall in the direction opposite to that of the initial nudge. It does so, picking up yet more speed, and attaining its lowest point on the side opposite to the initial placement. Now it's moving really fast in direction opposite to the initial nudge. Here it's moving way too fast for gravity to hold it, and it starts moving away. The second half of the orbit is the symmetric opposite of the first half. At the end of that half, the comet will end up at its initial position moving with velocity of initial nudge, ready to repeat all of this.
Now, look back at the lowest point in the trajectory. Here, the comet is moving really, really fast in direction perpendicular to radial. That velocity was picked up entirely due to gravity and the initial nudge we gave it. It's also higher than velocity required to settle into circular orbit. But imagine that down there it collided with something. Maybe an asteroid, or a smaller comet going in different direction. This will result in loss of velocity. A single collision probably won't settle it into a circular orbit right away, but it can bring down the aphelion (highest point in orbit around a star) quite a bit. A side effect is that the comet will be moving much faster than the initial nudge at the new aphelion.