nenyan said:
Could you please explain it in detail? Why I run into problems?
Because you're looking at something that is not invariant but thinking of it as though it *were* invariant (see below).
Also, you're ignoring key differences between electromagnetism and gravity. As I said in my last post, all objects fall with the same acceleration in a gravitational field; but all objects do not "fall" with the same acceleration in an electromagnetic field. Furthermore, when objects are acted on by an electromagnetic field, they feel a force; but when objects are acted on by a gravitational field, they do not feel a force: they are in free fall. So your "a" does not work the same as the "field strength" in electromagnetism; yet you are trying to treat it the same. That doesn't work.
nenyan said:
What is field strength? In my opinion, it is a parameter to describe a property of the field. The property is belong to the field, it is the nature feature of the field.
This doesn't really say very much; lots of different things can meet this description. For example, the potential itself has the same property. What picks out "field strength" from among all the different things that can be properties of the field?
nenyan said:
From the equivalence of inertial and gravitational mass, we obtain dF/dm=a. So we use "a" to describe the strength of G field. "a" is determined by G field itself.
But "a" is also frame-dependent; that's what you showed in your OP. You can always find a frame that makes "a" zero at a chosen event. So "a" cannot be an intrinsic property of the field itself; your choice of frame also affects it. (And since changing frames corresponds to a "gauge transformation" in GR, your "a" is not gauge invariant either, so it can't be a "field strength" in the sense that E and B are in electromagnetism, since E and B *are* gauge invariant.)
If you want to find something that is purely a property of the field, you need to look at invariants: things that don't change when you change frames. For example, ##h_{\mu \nu} h^{\mu \nu}##.
(Note, by the way, that the EM counterpart, dF/dQ, is also frame-dependent; you may not be able to find a frame that makes it zero at a given event, but you can certainly *change* it by changing frames. So your EM definition of "field strength" isn't really correct either; you should be looking at the EM field tensor ##F_{\mu \nu}##, or more precisely the invariants associated with it, such as ##F_{\mu \nu} F^{\mu \nu}##.)