TrickyDicky said:
the key point here if you take note of it is that here that geometric feature has to be assumed specifically, it is not something imposed by the EFE
No geometric feature is "imposed by the EFE", except in the obvious sense that solving the EFE tells you the geometry; in that sense every geometric feature is "imposed by the EFE", including homogeneity and isotropy in FRW spacetime.
The only difference of interest for this discussion between FRW spacetime and Schwarzschild spacetime is that in the latter, the congruence of timelike worldliness that is hypersurface orthogonal is a Killing congruence, whereas in the former it isn't. That is an invariant geometric difference; it's not coordinate-dependent, and it doesn't have to be "assumed specifically" in one case any more than the other.
TrickyDicky said:
It is quite clear that the assumption of the congruence is made
The congruence in FRW spacetime isn't assumed; it's discovered in the course of solving the EFE under the assumption of spatial homogeneity and isotropy.
TrickyDicky said:
in order to satisfy certain features of the coordinate 3D hypersurfaces
They aren't "coordinate 3D hypersurfaces"; they are spacelike surfaces that are homogeneous and isotropic. That's a coordinate-independent geometric property. The coordinates get chosen afterwards: once you specify that you are looking for a solution to the EFE that has the geometric feature that it is foliated by a family of spacelike hypersurfaces with a certain coordinate-independent, geometric property, you can then
prove (not assume) that you can choose a set of coordinates such that the line element assumes a certain simple form. That makes the solution of the EFE a lot easier. In the course of doing this, you can also
prove (not assume) that there is a congruence of timelike worldliness that is hypersurface orthogonal to that family of spacelike hypersurfaces. But none of that makes either the hypersurfaces or the congruence coordinate-dependent. The coordinates depend on the hypersurfaces, not the other way around.
TrickyDicky said:
if we wanted a static spacetime as additional assumption for restricting solutions of the EFE, the congruence would come immediately
Only because "static" by definition means a timelike Killing congruence exists. But note the "Killing" property, which is an extra (coordinate-independent, geometric) feature that is
not present in FRW spacetime. So, as I said above, the key difference between these two cases is whether or not the congruence is a Killing congruence, not whether or not the congruence is "coordinate-dependent"; neither one is coordinate-dependent.
TrickyDicky said:
requiring isotropicity and homogeneity of the solutions would be indeed a coordinate independent demand as we would already have a congruence by virtue of the static assumption.
This makes no sense at all to me. You appear to be very confused about the role coordinates play in solving the EFE.
TrickyDicky said:
one should maybe ask if the property of staticity is actually coordinate independent
Of course it is; the presence of a timelike Killing congruence which is hypersurface orthogonal is a coordinate-independent, geometric property.
TrickyDicky said:
As an example in de Sitter spacetime one can have patches that are either static or expanding depending on the chosen coordinates.
No, de Sitter spacetime (more precisely, the region inside the cosmological horizon) is static regardless of what coordinates you use. The expression describing the hypersurface orthogonal timelike Killing congruence will be more complicated in some coordinates than in others, but that has nothing to do with whether it's a Killing congruence or not.
TrickyDicky said:
As another example Minkowski spacetime, depending on the choice of 3D coordinate spacelike hypersurface, euclidean or hyperbolic, we obtain a different time coordinate, the latter an FRW time coordinate that gives an expanding solution of the EFE in vacuum, in the former 3D euclidean hypersurface case gives a purely static solution.
Again, the hypersurface orthogonal timelike Killing congruence is always there, it just looks more complicated in some coordinates than in others. You appear to be very confused about what "coordinate independent" actually means.