To all contributors, I made the following summary for my own (educational) benefit. Since it's merely a quick "copy and paste", I thought it might be of value to anyone coming across the thread in the future.
There's no need to read it, and it might be better if there are no further responses / clarifications / corrections / arguments etc. I'm definitely not expecting anything else. I thank you ALL for your time and patience sharing your knowledge.
I fully accept that the two scenarios are NOT equivalent and the observations would NOT be identical. Further, within the reference frame (excuse my little play on words) of my limited abilities, I have understood both the reasoning and the proof.
My take from this thread (what I now understand - or think I do, lol):
Proper "anything" means it is independent of coordinate system / reference frame, it is not relative and it can't be transformed away. eg proper acceleration or proper rotation.
Invariant means the same / unchanging in all reference frames, and is not limited to inertial coordinate systems. eg. Proper acceleration or charge on an object.
Relative means changing depending on the reference frame. eg. Velocity
A coordinate system typically consists of one coordinate for time and three mutually perpendicular coordinates for space.
Proper acceleration (aka absolute acceleration, aka invarient acceleration) is invariant (unchanging in all coordinate systems / reference frames). It is physically measured by an accelerometer. The physics (the outcome of any experiment) depends on the proper acceleration, not the coordinate acceleration. All observers agree on proper acceleration.
Relative acceleration (aka coordinate acceleration) is dependent on a coordinate system/reference frame and is the second derivative of the space coordinates with respect to time.
In an inertial frame, the coordinate acceleration and the proper acceleration are the same (at non-relativistic velocities). They can be very different in non-inertial frames.
An object falling to Earth has coordinate acceleration (reference frame is Earth) but no proper acceleration (subject to no forces). An object on the Earth's surface has proper acceleration (upwards force from the ground).
With respect to equivalence of rotating bucket / rotating universe scenarios - this is only true as a statement about choices of coordinates for the same spacetime geometry; it is not true as a statement about invariants. As far as invariants are concerned,
"rotating bucket in non-rotating universe" is not the same as "rotating universe with non-rotating bucket"; the latter would be a different spacetime geometry from the former. [This concludes the two scenarios are NOT equivalent and the observations would NOT be identical, for the stated reason.]
The equivalence principle is local, not the entire universe. [Thought only - if the entire universe was proper rotating / proper angular accelerating, would this make the equivalence principle non-local ?]
The global equivalence of different choices of coordinates on the same spacetime geometry is called "general covariance", not the equivalence principle. So the bucket thought experiment is an illustration of general covariance, not the Equivalance Principle.
Einstein said that when the traveling twin fires his rocket to turn around, this can be viewed as creating a gravitational field in which the stay-at-home twin is at a much higher altitude than the traveling twin, and this accounts for the stay-at-home twin's much greater elapsed time during the period when the field is present (i.e., when the traveling twin is firing his rocket).
In the spacetime geometry in question, there is no frame dragging. Frame dragging is not a coordinate effect; it is an effect of the spacetime geometry, and only certain kinds of spacetime geometries have it.
The way that the rest of the matter in the universe influences the bucket is by determining the spacetime geometry.
It really is the bucket that is rotating.
Einstein’s 1918 lecture was based on coordinate acceleration, not proper acceleration.
For equivalence it must not merely have some influence, it must have the exact same influence. It does not. [Conclusion that the two scenarios are NOT equivalent and the observations would NOT be identical].
It is actually fairly simple to show that it does not exert the same influence. We can just look up the Christoffel symbols in the Catalog of Spacetimes.
Where equation 2.1.30 (rotating bucket in the bucket's frame) [missing equation] has but equation 2.10.2 (rotating universe in the bucket's frame) has [missing equation]. [Proof the two scenarios will NOT yield identical observations - but see later comment that "this is not a good way of looking for influences"].
The shape of the water in the bucket will be very different in the two cases. So if you meant (2), your original claim in the OP of this thread that "the gravitational field of the rotating universe" will make the water in the bucket climb up the sides of the bucket is wrong. [Conclusion the two scenarios will NOT yield identical observations].
*** This is the proof that the two scenarios are NOT equivalent ***
In the first case, "rotating bucket in static universe", we describe the bucket using the Langevin congruence in flat Minkowski spacetime. The proper acceleration of this congruence is and the vorticity is . The proper acceleration is what accounts for the curved shape of the water surface inside the bucket, and the vorticity is what tells us the bucket is rotating.
In the second case, "static bucket in rotating universe", now that that OP has clarified that he intends this to mean an actual change in spacetime geometry, we describe the bucket using a Fermi-Walker transported congruence centered on a comoving worldline in the Godel spacetime. The proper acceleration and vorticity of this congruence are both zero. The zero proper acceleration tells us that the surface of the water in the bucket is flat, and the zero vorticity tells us that the bucket is not rotating.
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But one of the key points of discussion during this thread has been that all choices of coordinates are equally valid, and that actual physical observables must be described by invariants.
To put it another way, the concept of "gravitational field" as embodied in the Christoffel symbols is a coordinate-dependent concept; but the OP has said he's not interested in coordinate-dependent concepts, but in two scenarios that have an invariant difference between them. So the difference should be described in terms of invariants.
I should avoid using words like “ACTUALLY” “truth” “truly” and “reality” as they can be misconstrued.
PeroK considers the notion of a proper rotating universe being equivalent to a proper stationary universe (now properly discounted) to be mysticysm / metaphysics / philosophy.
And my final take is ... "There is no spoon"
Things I didn't understand and need to further research:
Proper acceleration can be written mathematically as a covariant derivative (?).
What Einstein was calling a gravitational field is technically the Christoffel symbols. Those are indeed relative to the individual frame. The Christoffel symbols do not affect the proper acceleration (?).
What you are describing here is not frame dragging. It is those Christoffel symbols (?).
Acceleration type is related to Mach's Principle (?).
The shape of water's surface would be subject to Lorentz contraction the same as any other shape. Doesn’t change the measured proper acceleration though... we’re looking at the geodesic deviation between adjacent volumes of water in the bucket (?).
In an empty universe a particle can still undergo inertial forces because Minkowski spactime solves the field equations of an empty universe (?).
This is all about Mach's principle. The question is: does the (inertial) mass m of the water depend on all the other mass M of the universe? Mach believed so; he believed that, whatever m(M) is, the inertial property of it should vanish if M vanishes. It's not clear if and how the (inertial) mass of the water is fully determined by all the other (inertial) mass in the universe (?).
The family of worldlines describing the motion of objects "at rest relative to the universe" will be integral curves of a timelike Killing vector field that is hypersurface orthogonal (which is what "static" translates to in more technical GR language); whereas the family of worldlines describing the motion of the bucket will be integral curves of a timelike Killing vector field (assuming the bucket's angular velocity of rotation relative to the universe is constant) that is not hypersurface orthogonal (in more technical jargon, the bucket's motion will be stationary but not static) (?).
Links followed (or yet to be followed):
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Proper_acceleration#In_curved_spacetime
Mach's principle.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brans–Dicke_theory
https://arxiv.org/abs/0904.4184
P.S. I knew you couldn't resist reading it
