To be honest, I don't really have a complete bill of materials for designing a DBFC. Most of my experience is only with PEM fuel cells which is a bit of a different breed although similar in concept.
I do know that you can use either a cation exchange membrane (like nafion) or an anion membrane depending on what ions you want to transport. I know most DBFCs use Nafion, mostly because its so readily available. There's a lot of different flavors of nafion and also some great nafion alternatives from companies like Fumatech: http://www.fumatech.com/EN/Onlineshop/fumapem-fuel-cells/
For monopolar/bipolar plates, corrugated or perforated stainless steel and maybe even nickel might probably work. I think NaBH4 is relatively inert but it is electrically conductive so you may want to do some research with what materials you want to use. I've mostly used sintered graphite for PEM and DMFC fuel cells as it works well and is cheap but can be difficult to machine if you're not experienced.
As for the electrodes, well that's the most difficult part. I can tell you what methods I have used before for making the electrodes for PEM fuel cells, and the same may work for DBFCs but I'm not sure. You can use Pt/C for the catalyst, and while it works the best, its not the only option. Iron tetramethoxyphenyl porphyrin (FeTMPP), Ag, and Ni have been shown to work well in DBFCs although I don't believe they perform as well.
As for your fuel cell size, if you're shooting for 100 watts of power you are most definitely going to want to go with a fuel cell stack unless you have a very good DC-DC converter or a load that likes to run at 0.5V and 200amps. Now this is where the serious engineering comes in. Because NaBH4 is electrically conductive, its can be very difficult to design a fuel cell stack that won't short itself out. A lot of thought will need to go into the manifolding and sealing in order to make sure the stack doesn't kill itself. You may even want to first try building a smaller low power FC stack or individual fuel cell to help with the learning curve.