Are all outside of the star? Then you can use the external Schwarzshild metric:
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From: https://www.researchgate.net/figure/Cone-like-embedding-diagram-visualizing-the-equatorial-plane-curvature-of-the_fig2_335210694
The distance
ds on the upper diagram is the real physical radial distance (proper distance). The distance
dr on the lower is calculated from the circumference or surface area using Euclidean formulas (assuming flat space).
But if you go inside it looks like this the round tip at the bottom here:
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From:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interior_Schwarzschild_metricSo the spatial "distortion" expressed as the ratio
ds/dt is greatest at the surface, and goes towards zero at the center and towards infinity. But note that:
- This spatial "distortion" is not related to gravitational pull itself. In fact it doesn't affect objects initially at rest at all.
- The spatial curvature is not zero at the center (its a spherical geometry), and neither is space-time curvature (not shown here).